Same here. I used to host and do so many things for free. I've stopped now. Because I don't receive the same kind of energy from them. Instead I get jealousy even from those I help.
2026-11-10 06:44:13
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faith :
It’s people pleasing. Put that love in yourself.❤️
2026-11-10 13:02:33
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Monalisa :
i used to do it too, untill they gossiped about me that i was showing off that am rich.
2026-11-11 15:43:28
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Cynthia Gentle 🏴 :
Boundaries are useful
2026-11-10 10:01:25
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shassy :
when you are kind without boundaries and self love they will use you suck you dry
2026-11-10 14:50:24
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Tandy mwale :
l really needed this , thank you so much, and this is the exactly me, and proud that no one will ever get that kindness from me.
2026-11-11 18:45:03
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Tesi Holistic :
Facts! And they loveeee your hosting, generosity and resources and will drain it. No more hosting in my home in that way.
2026-11-10 09:48:38
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444_shonsss :
I don’t want too much people in my home! I only do one person at a time! Also I’m very selective!
2026-11-10 13:21:32
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Kissthehippo :
Story of my life! Now I prefer being alone
2026-11-10 13:26:35
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Alex :
january 2026 i changed my contact number
i lovked my gates fulltime
i no longer posts
they went to my work seeking help i told them im in deep debts, i cant help(lies)
2026-11-10 18:03:13
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Aste-Collections ✨ :
I don’t host people. I sit alone in my house for days sometimes and I wouldn’t want it any other way.
2026-11-11 14:39:16
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UNIVERSITY OF LIFE :
They come with negative energy. I am done with playing dumb. I love my own company now.
2026-11-10 13:01:27
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Benny (Libra ⚖️💕 👑) :
this is my story.
God help us
2026-11-11 16:52:34
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ChefJoShaw :
That's why I STOPPED!!!!
2026-11-10 10:23:26
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nonobeself :
My dear you are right I have been there I know that journey but don’t let them change you keep being whom you’re
2026-11-11 18:51:31
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ASA Jewellery gh :
Hmmmmmm you don’t know people [Cool]
2026-11-11 13:36:57
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bitesbyeee :
I hate friendships that miss reciprocity
2026-11-10 12:25:14
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Cakes Boutique Zambia 🇿🇲 :
same same
2026-11-11 14:36:53
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Wasirah :
I have come to understand people will never give you what you give them. Unfortunately. Only you can give yourself!! ❤️
2026-11-10 16:24:40
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User busy♥️💋💄 :
The world is NOT attracted to kindness
2026-11-10 20:30:46
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Amanda piano :
Same I remember I spent 3 days speaking to my friend who was going through a hard time but she couldnt even give me a 5 min call the one time I needed her
2026-11-10 11:07:39
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Lydia Mauko :
I audited in 2025. Nowadays am very cautious ⚠️. My space is so small to accommodate people who dont reciprocate. Am the fake friend Nowadays and am ok with it.
2026-11-10 17:59:13
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Osa's Jeni :
As for me I cut them all off for my peace of mind 😒
2026-11-10 10:07:18
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Gisele🩵 :
I don’t do that or gift giving. I just ignore people until they know I’m not interested
2026-11-10 12:25:24
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crazylicious 🥴🤪 :
I know exactly how u feel 💯
2026-11-10 10:36:54
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