@bennylichtenwalner: If you're texting your ex again and want to ask them to meet up, don't rush it. Jumping straight to asking them for coffee is like walking up to a stranger and asking for their number. They don't know if you want to have a talk or if you're mad at them. Your chances of a yes are a lot better if there's good banter first, and there are three signs in that banter that tell you it's safe to ask. Talking again and don't want to blow it? DM me THREAD and I'll message you back.