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dianne.ssebek
Dianne :
This is very hard to gauge when healing from codependency unfortunately 💔 because any type of space feels like a down
2026-11-11 03:57:05
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user66286940
Ash :
i need more info, can you do specific examples of each?
2026-11-10 18:16:57
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rebeccalupken7
ℜ𝔢𝔟𝔢𝔠𝔠𝔞🎀 :
I struggle with this in every relationship
2026-11-11 00:45:30
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userlene250
user2525 :
This helped me queen thank you, with ROCD this is a question i always in my head. Foundationally nothing is wrong but my head is always fighting with itsself
2026-11-10 19:37:35
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cancld_
💎 :
See the problem is that we benefit each others lives in every way and everything is basically perfect 24/7. EXCEPT I also found one singular bad problem on his phone. Some would see it as NBD, some would see it as a deal breaker. I’m hurt and also like wtf do I even do here
2026-11-11 08:07:54
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stephen869
Esteban Gold :
When I finally met my person, life together was just easy and 20 years later it’s really hard to be apart from her. My whole regulatory system has fused with hers. It’s an odd but amazing feeling to have such a lasting bond with someone.
2026-11-10 22:42:03
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princess_peach_strong
Kayla :
if it's more bad then good then probably time to go
2026-11-10 18:21:58
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nyahheartt
nyahheartt :
I feel like if you have anxiety is a real good indicator
2026-11-13 02:32:59
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casserolelover
casserolelover :
Unrelated but you look really pretty with this makeup look!!
2026-11-10 17:28:15
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moninipanini
Moni 💋 :
if you have rocd maybe take this with a grain of salt. not because it's not good advice, but bcos our brains don't work like that
2026-11-11 19:02:19
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edlovestech
EdLovesTech :
Tbh I think it’s all about the standards you allow into your life. Like what percentage of the time are you fine and what are you happy with? For me it’s gotta be like 98% or thereabouts.
2026-11-10 13:08:38
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ali_ensuperstar
Alien Superstar :
I want zero problems so I prefer to walk away
2026-11-13 10:20:58
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tra1a1a1ala
tra1a1a1ala :
Appreciate this advice, makes me feel I actually did measure the right things to jump ship phew.
2026-11-10 16:30:23
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project_tengu
Tengu :
I'm always scared of this, like am I adding enough to my girls life?
2026-11-10 23:26:32
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carly_ferrari
Carlotta Ferrari :
What if it was all good and the problems started coming up when we became long distance? I feel like we are going through a period of adjustment, but sometimes I feel really bad
2026-11-10 23:19:36
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be11a.37
bella :
does that mean if theres a hard patch and it’s not necessary adding to your life you should leave?
2026-11-11 00:45:12
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restless.grape2
Restless.Grape :
My wife is my best friend. I strive everyday to show her that. I make mistakes and come up short some days. But she's always my best friend and I make that known even when I'm angry.
2026-11-11 05:51:23
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georges.aina
georges.aina :
Does one not inhibit the other?
2026-11-13 01:12:06
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vorpalkey
StrwbrryCke :
I just left the love of my life because we were fighting so often and i was crying multiple times a week due to his inconsistency when it came to me/us. He said he was blindsided because we had been “okay” but nothing had actually been worked through. He would be consistent for a day or two after then fall back into what was comfortable, so i was forced to break the cycle for us. No more missed plans and lack of effort.
2026-11-11 05:50:42
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techwithluna
techwithluna :
Finally someone said it! We need to normalize setting boundaries early in the talking stage. 👏✨
2026-11-12 11:29:09
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flyingfox2407
Amber Blankenship :
Ok what if it’s just a “hard season” and when it’s just us we’re good, but I’m doing postpartum without him bc he goes to school during the day and works at night while I work during the day and then take care of the baby
2026-11-11 22:01:03
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missionarymar
mardagoat :
Joy
2026-11-11 04:02:11
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brandonarvay
Brandon :
My ex doesn’t know what healthy relationships are. We were 90% happy, great days. She left to chase the 10%. Girl math says leave 90 to chase 10.
2026-11-10 13:13:49
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fidan19898
Dan8989 :
shush, things will be very different very soon
2026-11-10 22:24:53
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oreasonnottheneed
oreasonnottheneed :
😳😳😳
2026-11-11 04:14:06
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