@dontoverthinkitchip: Instead of getting mad at each other, or saying things like "why don't you listen to me!" Wait 3 seconds... this could save MANY arguments. Trust us.. #relationships #couples @Becca Shore

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smolfrog0
smol-frog 🇨🇦🏳️‍🌈 :
Auditory Processing Disorder is frustrating and needs a sweet bit of patience. 💗🌸💗
2026-11-11 05:19:14
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metalphork
metaLphorK :
why does everything the internet shows me is an ADHD thing is a thing I do?
2026-11-11 14:41:59
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kaffking1
kaff :
I say. Running on a dell processor over here. Give it a sec. It’s buffering
2026-11-11 06:34:11
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reading_with_kayla
Kayla 📚 💕💜💙 :
My fiancé just stares at me and says "you'll get there" 😂
2026-11-12 13:27:23
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henkaoyao
H :
Before asking a question, address the person by their name or title so they can focus their attention on what you’re saying.
2026-11-12 14:08:00
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bonblebee
bonblebee :
I do need you to repeat the first word to put everything in context pls.
2026-11-11 04:52:36
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april_evelyn_
April-Evelyn :
I wish other people were this understanding. ❤️❤️
2026-11-12 12:13:11
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beccsellent
Beccsellent 🇨🇦 :
My 13 year old just asked me the other day “why do you ask what when you know what I said??” I always end up answering him while he’s repeating himself. I should show him this video
2026-11-11 12:57:17
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troublesalad
Troublesalad 🇨🇦 :
Yes! And a pause between calling on my attention (babe!) and asking the question so I can switch mental gears and listen is a pro tip! 👌🏼💕
2026-11-11 09:06:15
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kp_aus
KP :
My kid goes “you got it mum. You got it. No rush, no you got it” 😂
2026-11-15 01:08:33
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chastitybeaver
Chastity Beaver :
sometime this works and sometimes I have to repeatedly tell him no. I really didn't hear you. please say it again as he stares at me patiently waiting for my brain to catch up and it doesn't not all the time anyway. most of the time it does but not all the time
2026-11-15 01:33:22
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rolikerosa
RoLikeRosa :
You’ve cracked the code sir!
2026-11-15 00:26:51
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btwn_the_lines
lanilama :
I just talked to my bf tonight about how he handles this and he was like “it’s just routine so im used to it now and its fine” 🫶🏼
2026-11-12 04:54:00
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rather_be_jaded
Jade🦖🍵 :
OK YES THIS IS ME A LOT OF THE TIME!
2026-11-13 08:44:50
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cheller784
Chelle B 🇨🇦 :
I wish people were all patient like this with auditory processing disorder it’s is frustrating and when others don’t wait for us to catch up makes it worse.
2026-11-11 14:11:31
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jeny442
Jeny442 :
I genuinely can’t hear what my hubby says sometimes… partially from adhd… and partially from both of us having poor hearing, me from years of headphones at max volume as a teen, him from being partially deaf in one ear and speaking quieter then he thinks he is… 😑
2026-11-14 21:52:35
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emeraldeyesmile
Chantel Morrigan :
Oooohhhh I need to add this to my list.
2026-11-14 14:54:20
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naudejason
Jason 💎 MadScientist :
Sir, you are a saint for that, I need THAT. 🤣 Oh, and do you have a brother? 💁‍♂️
2026-11-11 05:44:25
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karaelainehertzberger
Karameowxo :
I have to flip through my folders but I'll reply within 5-10 seconds even if I say what lol
2026-11-11 13:11:03
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juneebjonez
June 🍉 :
My problem is I respond in my head instead of out loud and my partner is left standing there waiting and then will say "he said into the void"
2026-11-12 20:41:54
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kkeba5
Traci :
This irritates me so bad - my response is always, IM NOT SURE HOW TO SAY IT DIFFERENTLY. Maybe I need to not be such a jerk lol
2026-11-12 11:36:24
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love_of_whimsy
Roger-Roger :
This so sweet. I wish people were this patient with me 🥹
2026-11-11 09:01:42
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maggiej810
👎👎 - Would Not Recommend :
In between your “nice” and “we should book it” she already has. We’re the slowest fast people!
2026-11-11 16:13:59
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littlerevna
Revna :
Sir I just want to say thank you! Thank you for being patient with her, for knowing her, understanding her and loving her. It takes a true and patient man to be with some with ADHD because from a girl that has it severely it is frustrating just for me so I can just imagine how frustrating it is for a partner.
2026-11-13 11:04:12
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