@subliminalsamira: 🤍 1. They pull away right when things start getting deeper One minute you’re getting closer, the next they’re cold or distant. Sometimes stronger feelings are exactly what makes an avoidant panic and retreat. 🤍 2. They act unbothered but still keep tabs on you They might not text or admit anything, but they’re watching your stories, checking your page, or asking about you. They still want to know what’s happening in your life. 🤍 3. They come back after periods of distance They convince themselves they’re fine without you, but once they start missing the connection and feeling your absence, they find their way back. 🤍 4. They get weird when they think you’re moving on They start watching more, liking your posts, or finding excuses to reach out when they realize someone else could take their place. 🤍 5. They still have an emotional reaction to you Jealousy, defensiveness, curiosity, or even acting cold. Strong reactions can sometimes mean there are still unresolved feelings underneath. 🤍 6. They want closeness but get uncomfortable once they have it They miss you when you’re apart but feel overwhelmed when you’re close again. That push-pull dynamic is why loving an avoidant can feel so confusing. And this is why chasing usually makes things worse. If they already feel overwhelmed, more pressure can make them retreat even harder. Give them space to feel your absence, focus on yourself, and let them experience what losing access to you feels like. Save this and send it to yourself PRIVATELY so you don’t lose it. #avoidantattachment #nocontact #breakup #reconciliation #relationships

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