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Tuesday 10 November 2026 16:10:54 GMT
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Lesedi Chisi🇿🇦 :
Nope, that’s where you draw the line, because next thing he’s going to impregnate a girl and expect you / the family to be okay with that because you’ve allowed certain things
2026-11-10 18:12:58
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simplysbahle_ :
oh mntase I’m so sorry , but unfortunately for you and fortunately for him you need to be the coolest person he’s ever met “ omdala” 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
2026-11-10 16:27:20
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Chwamakazi_onedegree21👩🎓 :
Being a cool big sister requires you ba ungahoyi yonke into.
2026-11-10 18:34:55
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Lilly🌸 :
ewe please 😭
2026-11-10 17:22:34
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Kgomotsego Bubu Babuseng :
I feel like you don't need to be cool but don't shut him out so he can be free to let you know if he will be sleeping with that girl😭😭😭you can better advice him than his friends ai I am still strict on my sibling but I don't shut her out no matter how uncomfortable she may be sometimes ....I know to the tea where she be at who is the boyfriend and I openly talk to her about sex so she knows is not something to play on haiiiii😭😭😭😭teenagers will be the end of us
2026-11-10 19:15:35
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Belfiore_06💐 :
I also need an advice im 20 years old and im a first born both parents my little sister is 15 in grade 9 she confessed to me that she’s dating she even sent a picture of them kissing I didn’t know how to react coz I really want her to have a cool big sister and experience things like “ i have sister “ typa thing coz I grew up lonely and I don’t want that for her I want to make her life soft I was planning to buy her an iPhone I really don’t know how to react towards her because I really want her next to me I love her so much that I’m scared to be harsh on her 😭😭
2026-11-10 20:49:46
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Ntyatyambo Toso :
Atleast kuwe utshilo owam ndambona se poster ndayibhuda ngobuza, got blocked for the whole six months andisoze ndiphinde ndibuze kwanto but I did speak to him about the bad side of umjolo and tried to educate him about the importance of practicing safe sex bcs telling him to stop was not an option use EC ndise free state ebengasoze andimamele. Kunzima ubayi big sis sana 😭😭😭✋🏿
2026-11-10 21:13:27
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Ms Canda :
I have a 14 year old brother who tells me everything he does , you’re lucky that ukuxelela yonke into . Hlala ubayi safe space yakhe qha ungonqeni umxelela what is wrong / right and let him date but tell him angangxameli izinto ezikude naye , guide him tell him iphathwa njani intombi . I promise you’ll be fine sisi ziyenzeka ezizinto bakhula fast ababantu.
2026-11-10 23:10:16
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Namhla🫧🌼 :
Just advise him about being responsible cause sana whether uba cool or not he will continue dating. Just be a safe space and guide him.
2026-11-10 20:50:00
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oyi_ndzotyana :
Sikhul torho, ngoku sifuna uthetha asithethi 😭😭👏🏻
2026-11-10 16:29:16
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hlonymarch4 :
Well my love you hv to be cool and umuyale and make sure you are his safe space 🥹😭kona kubuhlungu kuba big sister 😩.
2026-11-10 21:54:07
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L🎀 :
Mntase all I can say is njeba esithi uyajola neh if kwesa stage sase high-school I would advise you to sit him down instead of umgxolisa umxelele ba there are safe ways of ukwenza izinto so that angazomithisia angazofumana izigulo that's all he wants someone ozothetha kakuhle naye and not shout or prevent him from doing something cause umntu uzokwenza lento ayifunayo
2026-11-10 20:28:24
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tanya_N :
Am the strictest/coolest big sister ever. Andyazi how I balance it, but my nephews and nieces know “u Tania uzosiphambanela” but they still keep me in the loop. [Tears of joy][Tears of joy]
2026-11-10 20:15:27
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Nnonko :
I think if ukuxelela izinto ezinjalo you’re a safe space ,educate him about into ze relationship,to avoid izigulo and nokumithisa,because he’s not gonna stop noba ungamqobisela uqalile uqalile,uzoqhubeka ajole
2026-11-10 20:17:41
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Fiona Durban Plug :
You have to be cool and I failed my little sister but great thing is we have other siblings. She's more close to my other sister and my sister is cool and I am okay with not being cool. I don't know how to be cool too.
2026-11-10 20:35:02
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Rorisangg🌸 :
You can still be cool and reprimand him. He should feel safe to confide in you ewe but also respect you as a big sister( not saying he doesn’t already as i don’t know him personally)
2026-11-10 20:19:47
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THOLUSIZO~•ZULU :
Haa guys niyadikwa yithi 😭😭
2026-11-10 20:54:47
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xhosa_doll :
lol ungavumi ngawe mntase especially with umjolo, tell him that you don't mind him dating but awufuni ukwazi umjolo wakhe.
2026-11-10 19:17:03
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Lisakhanya🤍 :
Don’t be cool, they will disrespect you and you will be the first person to be disrespected when they’re 20. Makayazi uba awumqheliseli. Lol I am cool to an extent to my brothers but they know uba ndiyathetha as a result ndiyabadika but I play, dance, make jokes and spend time with them but bayazazi into zodlala and things to not say to me. Ndidika nyani mna shame everyday ndigqogqa iihomeworks and if azikho kuyafundwa😭😭💔
2026-11-10 23:16:26
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17 :
Mntase mxele nge protected sex qha ngoba wayeka uba cool uzophetha ungazi kwanto ngaye
2026-11-10 19:29:26
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Toni-Morningstar :
noba uCool neh, but makayaz ba ubulongwe awubudli angazukqhela kakbi🤞
2026-11-10 22:59:16
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lilitha :
unfortunately there is nothing you can do sisi ngoba akazoyeka wena mhlalise phantsi umxelele nge safe sex
2026-11-10 21:00:28
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Papi. :
Eweeeeee
2026-11-10 21:40:08
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Manz :
yinton erongo ngojola
2026-11-11 02:00:38
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Vuyi :
Ewe
2026-11-10 19:34:49
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