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mystic.farah 🧿 :
I’m 29 now and I have so much f*cking anger from being a good Muslim daughter. It got me nowhere except mental issues and guilt
2026-11-11 00:09:26
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Emelia :
“Respect your elders” not if they don’t respect me first 🥰
2026-11-11 03:35:31
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j.jt478 :
Within reason.
2026-11-10 19:01:53
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elma❗️ :
especially girls
2026-11-11 09:32:48
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N :
What is it with Asian parents and having a problem with us having friends!!! And a social life!!!!
2026-11-10 19:29:04
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Rishika Mal :
YES I’ve been saying this for years. The second I disappointed them, the sooner they were able to (somewhat) accept that I will be my own person and live by my own standards
2026-11-10 17:48:49
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Jasmine :
my eldest disappointed me recently but it really was a wake up call for me, expecting perfection from children is unattainable
2026-11-10 21:45:16
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Minela ♡ :
My only regret is not doing it earlier
2026-11-11 01:49:44
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Capgras Cat :
Whenever my parents compare me to anyone… I now have the audacity to compare back. xyz’s mum has a phd. xyz’s dad got them this for their birthday
2026-11-11 06:38:54
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_MilkyMilkMan_ :
especially south asian girl, get comfortable breaking your parents ridiculous boundaries!
2026-11-12 15:09:06
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hallo :
especially young girls - please make mistakes, be selfish, be angry. the younger you are, the smaller the scale is and recovery is usually easier, so you can learn
2026-11-12 13:09:22
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ngozieaaa :
34 and just learned this last year. almost died trying to please people and they took it as the base line for the relationship. Of couse she woulld walk miles in the rain to satisfy us...Of course she will smend YEARS working for free for our project. If you act like a dog people will treat you as such!
2026-11-12 21:38:43
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Sney_syne :
Now they think I’m disappointing but the thing is when I was young I wanted the same things as them but now that’s not what I want, I have never wanted marriage 🤷🏽♀️
2026-11-12 14:05:10
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Soli222 :
I always disappoint them their the first one who disappoint me the most
2026-11-12 19:30:03
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Frost :
My mom calls me her "retirement plan", 😭this is not happening
2026-11-13 01:03:33
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Perseed :
As some who grew up as a good and obedient eldest daughter and stayed home most days pls listen to this video!!!
2026-11-11 12:30:13
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Bright :
Freedom is overrated
2026-11-11 12:27:53
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Caria D. Ranni🏳️⚧️ :
Tiktok hitting me with a hopecore Bombardement today, I like it
2026-11-12 12:04:57
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Salma :
Be a menace and prioritise yourself
2026-11-11 12:21:51
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aykaybx :
I’m now a chronic people pleaser and get so anxious when I say no 😭
2026-11-10 21:18:27
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noreennessa :
I was the first in my family to not go to uni, not marry a South Asian and the first girl who moved out of my home. All of which led to so much aggro from my family. But they got over it, and now I’m happier than I ever would have been had I tried to please them
2026-11-10 18:10:09
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Brit :
Disappoint men’s opinion of you
2026-11-12 22:21:38
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Niraj Mamz :
I was the ideal child and now when I say no to something or do one thing against their will, I then get in trouble. But my brother can do something wrong and it’s expected of him so he doesn’t get told off
2026-11-10 21:30:01
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Nesyra :
As someone who never did naughty things, was always good in school & graduated on time; comes home before curfew; landed a good job; never sneaked out; never runaway as a kid/teenager; basically i tried to be a perfect daughter & a sister; im now 27 and i regret it all…i regret not being naughty; i regret being so obedient and i hope i had experienced doing something against the house/parents rules…not to mention that high expectations from everyone..im healing now & doing my best to disappoint ppl & my life is so peaceful
2026-11-12 15:45:38
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matti_barrel :
what do you mean obedient children don't get anything in life? we do: traumas and autoimmune diseases
2026-11-12 11:49:31
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