@burned_notbroken: This is why asking a burned out pursuer to “try harder” to repair after they have detached doesn’t work. It’s like asking them to climb a mountain when they are ill. All it does it make their burned-out state worse and delays their healing. Their nervous system needs time and space to recover. It needs relief from the dynamic that hurt them. And it needs to experience an entirely different relationship dynamic that proves to them they won’t burn out again. #burnedoutpursuer #relationshipburnout #marriagerepair #separation #relationshiprepair
I found out my partner was being lustful about other women and now I am unsure if he has cheated on me. I can feel myself pulling away and I lay next to him at night full of hate, can it be fixed?
2026-11-12 10:32:24
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Lucien :
Not me taking Samara Rowe arche type quiz twice just because I wanted to see whether I'd get the same result 😭
2026-11-10 23:44:48
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thegr81 :
The bad part is the avoidant partner loves it.
2026-11-10 23:06:24
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incog :
How can you create a new experience if you’re in no contact yet you’ve actually done the internal work to show up differently for yourself and the relationship? Especially if your attempts to reach out are met with nothing?
2026-11-10 22:38:57
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user3382715833875 :
How do you respond when he repeatedly says that you are now the problem and his needs aren’t being met? He’s hurting because you aren’t trying anymore.
2026-11-10 23:59:46
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Brooke G :
💯
2026-11-11 19:18:27
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