@thespiritbabymedium: I’m not a bad person. I've never done anything absolutely terrible, but I'll be the first to admit I used to lie, react out of anger, and hurt the ones I loved because I was scared. I've since found the reasons and dug deeper into myself. I've actively been going to therapy, journaling, and doing spiritual work to heal wounds that I didn’t even cause in the first place. However, when people constantly remind you of who you were, how you reacted, or how you treated others, it feels like a punch to the throat. It's as if all my hard work isn't seen or cared about. No one is perfect, and no one has a clean history of being a great, awesome person who’s never done anything wrong. But not everyone, like myself, can take accountability and grow to be a better human being. I don’t force anyone to be in my life, whether friends, family, or relationships. If you cannot see my growth and constantly get mad about how I used to act, then it’s okay to leave. But it’s not okay to only view me as the Brooklynn I was before I worked on myself and took the time to heal. It’s also not okay to try to turn other people against me when that simply isn't the version of me I am today. People who truly love you will be proud of you for achieving goals and fixing your issues, not belittling or judging. They will be supportive. I firmly believe that in order to heal and grow, you simply have to let go, even if it hurts. I refuse to be a person my niece and future kids can’t look up to. I hope every day I show progress and capability. Stop bringing up my past if you don’t know how much I begged the Universe to help me heal from things so I could change into a better person. ✨🖤 #PersonalGrowth #HealingJourney #SelfImprovement

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Tuesday 10 November 2026 18:01:15 GMT