Everyone is different. You may feel suffocated while another person feels loved.
2026-11-10 22:59:38
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jk :
it's normal to be like that in the beginning of a relationship. but if it's ongoing and not mutual, it may be a problem.
2026-11-10 22:49:20
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Origamiman87 :
them wanting to occupy your free time isn't necessarily a red flag, but them taking it personally is.
2026-11-10 23:14:38
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GeoSanGiovanni :
Well I would set a boundary and see if they will respect it. Then you’ll know.
2026-11-10 19:38:46
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JuniorBaconChee :
As someone who needs alone time, I get it.
2026-11-10 23:17:02
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Bert :
Yes it means they’re dependent on you for their happiness
2026-11-10 23:30:36
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Jaqurion Cherry :
There is no point in dating someone if you aren't going to be living together .and once u are living together you set up house to where each person has their own bedroom
2026-11-10 23:39:23
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user2412074080706 :
Yup. Byeee!
2026-11-10 23:40:57
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Grizzlyack :
well nothing wrong with thinking that but what does that have to do with someone wanting time alone?
2026-11-10 23:36:16
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jeffef :
Im a Sagittarius, definitely need my alone time😆 Yes, they get annoyed!
2026-11-10 23:47:45
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Wohali :
yup, run away..quickly
2026-11-10 20:27:48
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enarxix :
yes red flag. you are your own person and should have time to do your own things
2026-11-10 22:22:32
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jj :
Thx coach
2026-11-10 23:41:47
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k9dadogg :
Aquarius
2026-11-10 23:03:43
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Andrew Vaughan359 :
kind of but shit talking them to strangers is worse
2026-11-10 20:15:59
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Micky the Sieve :
Yes. It’s great to want to be around someone you like, but everyone needs to have their own time and someone getting offended or hurt because you are taking that time is going to be a very controlling and gaslighting partner.
2026-11-10 19:09:07
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Deglo :
They don't trust you
2026-11-10 19:40:11
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Grizzlyack :
not that deep..simply means they ain't for you..someone else may be cool with that
2026-11-10 19:34:30
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TomServoCrow :
It depends on your own personality and what you want in a relationship. I don’t think it’s a “red flag” but if it’s not what you are looking for then it might just mean you aren’t compatible with the other person.
2026-11-10 21:23:01
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Bex ʕ •ᴥ•ʔ :
Talk to them about it. Set boundaries and what your expectations are. If it’s not compatible you can either compromise or break up.
2026-11-10 19:38:22
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FrankNixx404 :
Yes. It shows co dependence. You should make time for each other but you should each have your own time alone
2026-11-10 23:08:33
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interfectorem_regum :
Side note: if you ever hear this song’s intro on one of those gigantic sound systems you only find in classy night clubs; it will raise every hair on the back of your neck. It will literally begin to affect your nervous system in the most glorious way!😁
2026-11-10 22:49:06
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johnwommack7 :
yes it means you cant regulate your own time. underlying is usually is trust issues.
2026-11-10 23:09:35
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MrWiggitty :
I think that depends on their intentions which they may or may not disclose truthfully to you. As someone who just wants love love love and prop up my significant other, my gf showed me how suffocating it can be and at the same time how I was losing myself by prioritizing her over everything. In that sense, your someone needs to learn how to support independence together. If that can't be respected that's a definite red flag. Also, you are not responsible for teaching this to your person. It may be helpful, but prioritizing your mental health should always be #1.
2026-11-10 21:42:12
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