@bennylichtenwalner: If you've tried everything to save your marriage and therapy didn't work, it's because therapy is meant for two people who both want to fix it. When your partner has pulled away and doesn't want to be together anymore, no amount of talking about it will fix it. It only makes it worse. Attraction works when you want them but don't need them, and getting back to that with someone you already love is really hard. Married or together for years and it's falling apart? DM me ROOTS and I'll message you back.