@steffy_u_r_not_alone: MIND YOUR OWN DAMN BUSINESS. 🖤 Grief is not a competition. There are no gold medals for suffering, and nobody gets to decide whose loss hurts more. The world is so damn busy trying to FIX grieving people that it forgets something important. WE DIDN’T ASK TO BE FIXED. We don’t need your timelines, your unsolicited advice, your judgment, or your opinions about how we’re surviving. Some of us laugh. Some of us cry. Some of us talk to those we’ve lost. Some of us are barely holding on. And some of us are learning to live while carrying a pain that will never completely leave. Grief doesn’t need your permission, your approval, or your understanding. You don’t get to dictate how someone else survives a loss you aren’t carrying. Grief is personal. Love is personal. And how we survive losing someone we love is nobody’s damn business. To everyone grieving: You do not have to justify your grief to ANYONE. 💔 What’s something people need to STOP doing to grieving people? #GriefJourney #GriefSupport #GriefHasNoRules #GriefCommunity #Grieving
You fucking rock!! Thank you for this! My mom just passed away in July!!💔💔
2026-11-11 01:13:43
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Tara Jacques731 :
My dads burial, one year anniversary is tomorrow, I have no words for what comes tomorrow. Grief takes time and time alone, it does not come from someone who has not gone through grief. I never expected it to be so strong. It hits at different times and different levels. I am not the same person I was before I lost my dad. It is the strangest most powerful thing I’ve been through in my life. I am having a hard time losing my dad I cannot imagine the pin of loosing a child. You carry yourself well through your words and I appreciate you and your videos. They have taught me so much so thank you 💋❤️🔥
2026-11-11 01:12:30
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Joyce GEN X :
Thank you so much because I feel like people think I should be over it. I will never be over losing my son 4-27-26
2026-11-11 02:04:51
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Amy :
This!!! Theres no manual for grief. We can’t b fixed like u said❣️🙏🏽 for all of us 💯
2026-11-11 02:02:16
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user9930392713250 :
Today is my sons Heavenly Birthday…RIP Walker
2026-11-10 23:53:03
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Amba Lee :
I’ve got nothing other than I am so so sorry.
2026-11-11 00:32:30
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An-gel-ic-a :
This is the most powerful video ever. Thank you so much.💓🥰🙏
2026-11-11 00:42:53
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Amanda H :
A lot of us know how to fake the pain when needed I appreciate your advice to not be ok ❤️
2026-11-11 00:10:44
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irenepalacio360 :
You’re right, I miss a loved one too. It is hard. God bless you 🙏
2026-11-11 00:47:24
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may208may :
I just love how other say to you there is a time limit and you should be over it by now
2026-11-11 00:49:13
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Twyla Emelio :
My daddy will have past away a year ago 12-25-26 I love you steffy
2026-11-11 01:43:49
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Louise💐 :
Beautiful inside and out❤️
2026-11-10 23:51:09
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Michy1169 :
I just posted a video about unsolicited advice
2026-11-11 00:24:14
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denisejohnson537 :
You're a kind soul! Your son would be so proud of you! 🙏❤️
2026-11-10 23:20:38
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123kmills :
Thank you 💕
2026-11-11 00:32:42
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An-gel-ic-a :
Thank you so much for this video Steffy, I don't understand how people think that grief could be fixed, what the hell?
2026-11-11 00:40:36
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beachlife_1 :
Thank you! ❤️
2026-11-10 23:52:23
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Coleen Bazzett :
THANK YOU
2026-11-11 01:07:50
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Kandy Neniska505 :
steffy
2026-11-10 22:33:17
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Susan Luckey703 :
❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏
2026-11-11 01:48:39
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Mary Hajduk :
This! I don’t need/want fixed… I want my son back, no lip service! I wish people understood this… this bitch (grief) gets her space and they can leave, I’m over it. I love and appreciate you and your message- thank you! ❤️🫶
2026-11-11 05:28:35
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Kristy :
10/29/26 my son
2026-11-11 05:15:18
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candy :
I still grieve I lost my baby brother in 2001 now my sister this December will be 3 years, you got that right steff it is a life sentence for us im still heartbroken even when im smiling. Love you steffy ❤️
2026-11-11 03:42:39
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valerieburnettval :
Much love thank you for your e grace
2026-11-11 06:45:34
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lindabenjamin55 :
Grief ♥️💔
2026-11-10 22:24:30
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