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Persimmon lane :
my sister was chd free by choice and in her 40s she had to have a hysterectomy and said there is a difference between not wanting to have children and knowing that you cannot have children.
2026-11-10 22:28:40
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Savvie :
36 was the one that got me recently. I turned 36 in September. 35 felt like oh I’m in my mid 30s. 36 was like… ohhhhkay I’m heading toward 40 and I need to figure shit out.
2026-11-11 00:58:05
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Barbie :
I turned 35 at the beginning of COVID lockdown. 😹
2026-11-10 22:44:41
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Maureen E. Jett she/her :
50 kicked my butt. I legit didn't think I would be alive this long. Now, I am 56, and it is A LOT. Keep going.
2026-11-10 22:00:53
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jeneemaree :
40 has freaked me out so badly
2026-11-11 06:32:33
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amandangerously :
39 has been my 30/35. I’m freaking out
2026-11-10 21:59:05
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overhannahlyze :
Hi! I’m thinking about getting a nuface mini, just checked in here before purchasing and the link to the mini on your page says page not found
2026-11-11 02:00:45
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ally_alert :
Oh. Oh no. I'm 33 and thought it would be just keep on getting better because it's never been as good as it is. Well, I guess continuous growth as I'm aging doesn't come from having it all figured out already I guess 🥲
2026-11-10 22:17:56
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Hannah Kat K :
I don’t have the spoons to say it in the way it deserves to be said, but the way you have modeled so much and taught and shown up on the internet re these subjects in a way I’m not seeing from others really means so much. Legitimately, thank you.
2026-11-11 06:08:44
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Mish :
38 is killing me right now with my childfree by choice life. Because all of my closest friends are deciding to all of a sudden have babies. Which is great, I love kids. But it’s the mental battle of why am I the only one choosing childfree, is there something wrong with me, and oh no I’m going to lose all of my friends to motherhood. All extreme reactions but those feelings are real.
2026-11-11 05:27:02
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frankie 🤠 :
I turned 30 today and your videos have been a big part of making that feel so incredibly exciting for me, thank you ❤️❤️I know there will be ups and downs but I’m excited to see where they spit me out
2026-11-10 22:26:23
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Luthiennes :
I’m 33 right now and feel like I’m going through this, this was really helpful
2026-11-11 03:43:55
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Molly :
I’ll be 38 next month. And until like a month ago that was fine. For some in the last month or so I really realized I’m about to be 38. Which is really close to 40. Being in my 40s, that I’m looking forward to. The idea of turning 40 and my life being the same as it is now, that’s really what has me bothered. I’m chronically ill and disabled. That happened at 33, so my life is NOTHING like I thought it would be. It’s not a bad thing necessarily it’s just very different. But I’m really noticing the things I want to change before I hit 40. I’m also realizing how much of that work I’ve already started. Even with becoming chronically ill and disabled, my 30s have been so much better than my 20s. So I know my 40s are gonna be good too, I just have to make it past actually being 40.
2026-11-11 00:00:39
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Kasey Mayfield :
35 has been the year where my life fell completely apart and I was forced to except so many changes at once. I literally thought it was all over and I was done. I’m so glad I did the work that I did in the first 5 years of my 30s because while this year has been hard and I felt like my life was falling apart I’m finding who I actually am and what I actually enjoy.
2026-11-10 23:52:26
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jensanity10 :
I freaked out at 30, 35 was only a mild panic. I breezed right through 40 🤣 (largely because I’d gotten rid of my turd of an ex-husband by then and found the actual love of my life)
2026-11-11 00:56:55
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Eclecticpeachartisan :
seeing this on my 35th birthday is wild but needed for sure
2026-11-10 23:48:11
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courtneyglover525 :
37 freaked me out, im 40 now... its chill. its just realizing your baby making window is closing... exactly what you said... weather thats what you want or not
2026-11-11 04:14:43
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✨Val✨ :
Oh so me getting divorced at 35 very much makes sense
2026-11-11 01:19:46
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xergey :
meatsuit!! lol thats such a cool thing to say
2026-11-10 23:54:12
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LovelySaltyJess🧡🤍🩷♾️🔻 :
I turned 40 this year and it’s kicking my ass 😭
2026-11-11 01:03:23
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Blair Bathory :
35 sucked so much ass.
2026-11-11 03:37:28
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Meg D :
I turned 35 a couple months ago and I think I would have lost my marbles if I hadn't had your videos talking about aging.
2026-11-10 23:55:53
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theredheadfromalabama :
I started perimenopause last year and I'm 35 now... so it's like a double whammy 😭
2026-11-11 01:32:32
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billyjuul666 :
I’m due with my first baby a week after I turn 35 😳
2026-11-11 00:27:05
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kat11 :
As a 34 year old I've learned so much and felt very affirmed by your content over the years. Thanks Becca!
2026-11-10 22:18:59
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