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nb86183 :
What about the fact that Avoidants leaves a trail of hurt?
2026-11-11 14:53:59
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MzFrizzle :
Instead of being angry I learned to date like an avoidant you’ll get the absolute best out of people sadly
2026-11-11 19:13:49
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⃟ :
man i been dealing with it for a year now and ts drains me but i genuinely want her
2026-11-12 04:50:29
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isaidiwouldnt2 :
Absolutely! The problem is most of them flee before accepting their patterns. They love deeply, but the love they have is not greater than the fear they have of themselves.
2026-11-11 02:45:49
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Lamya Chanelle :
My boyfriend is an “avoidant” and I’m an “anxious”, (I don’t like to label us as those things because they don’t define who we are, only our wounds), but I say we’re people who are working through those tendencies, but anyways.. at the beginning of our journey it was the typical story that you hear everywhere of the anxious and avoidant and tbh, I did not think it was going to work, but we both make a conscious effort every day to choose each other over our attachment styles. It took a relationship for us to start to heal, and some people may say that sounds backwards, but sometimes you can’t work on actively healing something until you let the wound open… that’s what starts the repair. It won’t be easy to break down those walls on either end, but each day I spend with him it becomes more worth it.
2026-11-11 17:29:51
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Love Is All You Need :
Finally the other side of the story. Avoidant is loveable as long as both parties learn about each other and truly want to work on understanding each other. Love can heal. It’s quite simple if you’re willing to. Thank you 🙏 I hope your message reaches many who needs to hear it 🤍🕊️
2026-11-10 22:35:23
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angelfn_ :
let them be alone.
2026-11-10 22:32:51
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The Quiet Flame :
I don't think anyone believes that Avoidants want to be alone MORE LIKE Avoidants want to experience the whole neighbourhood
2026-11-11 20:08:09
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Ben Alistor :
Hard truths are usually the ones that help the most
2026-11-11 00:28:43
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Toya 🌻🧘🏾♀️🌻 :
😒 Well he’s not going to “practice” with me! Find someone to do it 🙄
2026-11-11 18:11:47
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SlyFox 🖤🔱❤️🇺🇸 :
I just released mine! He’s a good human, just needs to work on himself. I couldn’t do the push pull anymore.
2026-11-11 23:06:50
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Reno Ross :
My avoidant has bpd, it’s absolutely killing me but I really really love her tho🥺
2026-11-11 21:46:36
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dreamsofanicequeen :
Yeah no, they can choose else as an emotional punching bag while they practice. I’m out!!
2026-11-11 21:06:32
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Framesbyrao :
We have healed through it and got passed it
2026-11-10 22:40:29
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Prudence :
Absolutely, they need to experience the relationship to relearn the pattern.
2026-11-11 07:21:11
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Ray Pilalas :
they need the practice after the get the therapy first without the therapy any relationship they try is just gonna go down the same dead end road
2026-11-12 00:09:03
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woodenboatgirl :
avoidant’s cant step up to the plate
2026-11-11 15:14:56
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AllUNeed114 :
They do, only if they are self aware with no intention of doing the work or getting help. because only they can fix their issues so if there's no willingness why traumatize ppl
2026-11-11 02:10:00
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Kev B :
“Abusive people need to be in relationships to get better” okay fine but I’m not gonna be their victim while they get better. They need to be alone.
2026-11-11 17:53:29
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AK :
Terrible logic. being discarded DESTROYS people. Ruining somebody is no excuse for the very unlikelihood of them maybe healing. therapy is the ONLY option.
2026-11-11 20:32:07
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Dasha Smith aka Queenbee :
Yeah but where not practice dummies we being put in tests if they don’t know how to handle relationship don’t get in one
2026-11-10 23:36:51
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Derek Pentenburg :
Avoidants WONT take the accountability. Relationships take two sides to fight for it. Simple as that. 2+2 always equal 4 for avoidants who aren’t working on their trauma issues.
2026-11-11 18:19:21
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Morris :
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2026-11-11 16:04:12
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