@parismwendwa: #thoughtdaughter

malachi!! :

Wait but I think that’s the point…. 😭😭😭They want a man they trust so much to the point that they don’t have to worry about stuff like that

raging narcissist :

i understand the logical concern behind this phrase, however the way i interpret it is that i am able to be entirely myself with zero inhibitions with my partner, without the regular anxiety i have when speaking with most people (im a very shy person). but not becoming a brainless doll with him

•☆Jata☆• :

you've changed my perspective on a lot of things

Nicole :

I don’t turn my brain off to be completely useless and let him lead every single thing BUT I do turn off my brain n I can be myself without overthinking anything. For some women it’s just about trusting their partner enough to be completely comfortable. However, even if you trust a man 100%…don’t.

sage 🫧 :

this phrase doesnt mean literally stop thinking. i think it means being able to genuinely express urself, speak your thoughts freely without fear of judgement. it's also crazy to think u should have to be to be incredibly cautious around your partner bc they could off you. thats not normal.

YUNJU SUPREMACY 😭😭 :

PLEASE MAKE A PODCAST CLOCK THESE MEN

Daishia :

Girl I need to hear every thought that you have ✍🏽

️ewa :

i agree worh every damn thing you say. were on the same wavelength

Shelbi Baker :

“THIS IS ALSO NEVER TRUE” !!!!! period!!

Cora :

preach

Santana 🔪 :

I think of it differently. I want to not have to make all of the decisions. I work in a job where I’m constantly doing these things and doing these things for myself. When I’m with a partner I want to be able to not make decisions and trust that they will take care of me.

Mykayla Elyse 🪴 :

sista pls

Pretty_ohemaa :

If they have one got me rolling 😂😂

yaly :

your skin looks SO soft wow

Mentat(Erasmus's Version²) :

yaly :

girl i love u so much

mel2cutie :

I get what you’re saying but it’s not giving up your autonomy to a man that’s being romanticized, it’s the being able to trust a man that’s being romanticized. Stop making things into what it isn’t

Alyssa :

i once dated a man who said “i like when women are able to turn their brains off around me, that i can give them the peace of mind that i’ve got everything under control.” i said that will never be me… i can see the appeal because life is exhausting, but this same guy had some weird energy and i would not trust my brain to be turned off around him.

Amilitious :

Bc otherwise you can’t be with most men, it’s so dull, so DRY

G :

I guess it not common sense to yall what she be sayin...

valentine :

are yall gonna explain that it’s kink related or what