@ky.datingdiary: is this a red flag? #redflag #genz #nycdating #nyclife #datingstory

digbicktony :

if any guy asks you out it’s because he wants to sleep with you. guys don’t know if they want long term with you unless they actually get to know you, which tends to be after sex. then you hang around for a while and the connection grows (depending if you’re both interested in each other). chances are if he said he’s just looking for something casual, you would’ve dipped. men can’t just be honest cause we have to carefully negotiate with terrorists (women)