its so weird bc these friends will try and force you into their #1 spot in private but in public, you’re at the bottom of their totem pole
2026-11-12 12:39:28
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Babygirlmya :
Biggest lesson I learned this year
2026-11-12 06:01:09
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🧜🏼♀️ :
Ik my place in their lives but they be mad when I DO act accordingly
2026-11-13 15:28:10
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angelinejane21 :
my bestfriend is my top #1 friend, i'm probably her 20th ranked friend
2026-11-13 07:25:01
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Bryana :
i use to bury these feelings. but i've realized that i need people in my life that value me like i do them. it hurts too much, fr.
2026-11-12 02:27:07
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Mariana :
I started doing my own plans. This Tuesday I went to salsa and bachata class so much fun and met 2 ladies.
2026-11-12 06:10:10
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Jasz :
My feelings never get hurt because im not really that close to any one so I understand why 😂, im still kind and wish everyone happiness
2026-11-12 03:14:45
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Lola Glamm :
this why i treat everyone equal. i don't rank folks
2026-11-12 23:15:39
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Every thing will be ok :
Yess I agree. I love when people discuss things like this openly and honestly I have benefited so much of content like this since I downloaded TikTok on understanding why things like this happened to me what a relief knowing It’s just a human nature not a mistake I have done or me being naive.I will be honest when teaching my kids about friendships.
2026-11-14 03:29:23
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Thebeautylofts :
Cut off and find your people ❣️
2026-11-12 04:38:17
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dejasimone991 :
Yes, learning how to compartmentalize the people in your life is key. Your feelings get hurt when you don’t 😭
2026-11-12 01:06:02
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Kristaa ⚡️ :
never will put ANYONE on a pedestal everrrrrrrrr again🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️
2026-11-13 20:30:06
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TheeFancyCollection :
Acquaintances, co-workers,colleagues, associates. Everybody is not your friend.
2026-11-13 02:11:50
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𝑱𝑼𝑳𝑰𝑨𝑵𝑨🇰🇭 :
i think that’s why i stop trying to reach out sm to want to consistently hangout so now is just if you want to see me you can reach out seems horrible but i hate feeling desperate
2026-11-14 03:21:25
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xabenazx :
Learned this a while ago
2026-11-14 02:36:38
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Taimane Maulupe :
Biggest lesson I’ve learned as a girls girl. 🥹😭💔 aware, and praying about it to grow
2026-11-13 18:45:32
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Finschronicles :
I’ve learned place and lower my expectations I don’t expect shyt no more I just do me
2026-11-14 02:07:32
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Ararebreed :
“Stop breaking your own heart by exaggerating your place in other people’s lives” 💜💜
2026-11-12 17:58:46
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Javi Ohhh :
Act accordingly 💯
2026-11-12 01:34:52
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sarah.archive :
.. once you’re 100% focused on yourself, none of these things really fazes you.
2026-11-13 17:30:48
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buddy :
I wish I knew this when I was younger
2026-11-12 23:20:48
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Shan જ⁀➴₊⊹🎀 :
This is a sensitive topic to me
2026-11-13 19:58:42
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laii :
find people who value you like you value them
2026-11-13 03:03:36
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wymtina :
Like why does it have to be ranks this is why I don’t talk to ppl in general
2026-11-12 16:41:03
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