@twoparentsandapod: YES. 100%. If dad’s shift is 9-5, mom’s shift is 9-5. From 5pm on?? 50/50. SAHMs, how do you handle evenings after 5pm?? 👇 #twoparentsandapod #stayathomemom #marriedwithkids #parenting
Bro. I've done the stay at home dad for 5 years with a 2,6,9,12 year old kids. It's not a hard job.
2026-11-13 04:59:45
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Miles 2 Freedom :
being a stay at home mom is not a job, it is a wonderful and extremely rewarding privilege!
2026-11-12 22:09:02
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Rick Link :
Check mom’s screen time. No break, my ass!
2026-11-12 22:18:12
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Nicole_Hasledalen :
He gets a lunch break and also gets a break while driving to work and driving home. She doesn’t have 10-40 mins to get a time to breathe while driving. She wakes up and is already at work. She doesn’t get lunch break away from her responsibilities. Yes both are tough and draining. But just because you leave to go to your job doesn’t mean you can’t be a parent when you get home.
2026-11-12 20:14:26
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ishouldsignout :
being a dad is a full time job too. he better get home and get his dad on. he chose to have kids, no?!?
2026-11-12 20:14:05
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SeanElder_unbanned :
My kids take naps…..30mins-2hrs seems like a decent break time
2026-11-13 11:29:47
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Drayzsoles :
Saying because I worked I don’t wanna play with my son because it’s your job is diabolical
2026-11-12 21:25:14
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Sarah_Robuck :
Do the kids nap? That is a break too. Just how you look at it I guess.
2026-11-13 17:02:20
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𝓓𝓸𝓸𝓭𝓵𝓮💨 :
"he doesn't have help with his job" so he doesn't have coworkers? He doesn't have anyone he can ask for assistance with something? He doesn't get PTO?
2026-11-12 17:59:29
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user728190191873 :
Ppl should rly have these convos before getting married
2026-11-12 21:51:18
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Huntress :
He gets breaks at work. She gets none. He would still be working that job even if he didn't have bills to pay for all of them cause he would have to pay his own bills. She is helping him by him not having to pay for childcare. And I would assume she is doing the majority, if not all of, the housework. He would have to do all of that if she wasn't there.
2026-11-12 22:46:20
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Laura :
By definition of full-time job minimum 40 hours a week. A Mom 24 hours a day seven days a week, 365 days a year.
2026-11-12 23:14:31
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Margaretha Wolfe :
No he doesn’t get to come home and sit. He’s a parent as well and needs to help when he gets home.
2026-11-12 18:39:43
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Suebell121 :
Best for the kids for them to both be involved when he gets home.
2026-11-13 19:18:10
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yungjsquared :
Jus don’t meet him at the door wit the shit. Give him time to eat and shower and I guarantee you won’t have them problems
2026-11-13 14:26:55
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taylor :
My man does get overwhelmed sometimes when he gets home and all of us want to be talking to him. But he reminds himself that we all want to see him and we’ve been looking forward to it all day [Red heart]
2026-11-13 18:27:14
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Apple User358485 :
If they’re both under two, they should be in bed by seven, eight at the latest, so that would only give dad an hour or two with the kids to begin with
2026-11-13 13:40:30
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Ryan :
When dad gets home, mom doesnt get to check out, dad doesnt get to check out. We’re a team and handle what needs to get handled together. Then we both get a break
2026-11-12 18:26:47
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Burley_Ames :
Give me time for a quick shower and some food, then I’m locked into dad mode for the evening. No questions
2026-11-12 20:46:45
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Dana :
SAHM hours start when dad leaves for work and ends when he gets home. Then it’s 50/50
2026-11-12 21:17:53
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brooklynntaylorsversion :
mind you he also gets the drive too and form work without kids to decompress, probably gets a lunch break too. stay at home moms are clocked in from the money their eyes open until they close. and depending on how good of sleepers you have even at 2am
2026-11-12 18:47:16
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Sar956 🌊 🎉 🏳️🌈 :
My husband said this 28 years ago that we had jobs during the day and in the evening we all had a family to take care of.
2026-11-12 18:23:02
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dargleben :
He works 8 hrs and she’s on 24
2026-11-12 23:35:19
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Sydney Foshay :
as a stay at home mom with blue collar husband, his hrs arent coming home at 5pm. Alot of blue collar men dont work 9 to 5pm. Alot of time he working til 8pm/9pm past bedtime or he travels for his job or works 6 days a week. But when he has a day off from work he is the best dad and helps out and gives me break. you have to find your own balance as a family when he working those kinda of hours in a blue collar job.
2026-11-12 18:38:21
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