@tonyajscott: I considered everybody’s feelings. I forgot to consider my own. “How will they feel if I say no?” That question can take up so much room that we never stop to ask what another yes is costing us. Our time. Our energy. The things we keep saying we want to do. I’m learning to ask another question: “How will I feel if I told myself yes?” Yes to making room for my dreams. Yes to giving something that matters to me a little of the attention I so freely give to others. I’m not learning to care less about people. I’m learning not to leave myself out. I can love you and still make room for what matters to me, too. I get to be one of the people I take care of. What would saying yes to yourself look like right now? #getoutofyourownway #nooneisyouandthatisyourpower #theupgraders

Tonya Joyner-Scott

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Thursday 12 November 2026 20:28:42 GMT