I have one worse. You tell him what hurts you. He says sorry. And he will do better. Then he does it again but it’s not exactly the same but the concept is the same. And here you are having the same conversation again and again and again and again
2026-11-13 12:28:25
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𝒸𝒽𝒶𝓇𝓁𝑜𝓉𝓉𝑒🪶 :
It’s just narcissism
2026-11-13 14:30:09
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Parker.harrison :
“Omg it was a joke” “you should get my humor by now” “ you’re sensitive” gets mad and blames me for my hurt feelings
2026-11-13 02:33:52
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Hazel 🧿 :
Stop over-explaining. They understand but do not care!
2026-11-12 23:50:31
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Ang010565 :
My ex husband was like this. It made me feel so crazy because I would try so hard to be healthy and communicate my needs. But he just took it as an attack, would bring up old things or unrelated things that bothered him, and became 100% “logical” about the situation. For example if I said “I feel like we’re not spending enough quality time together” he’d be like “we spent x and y hours together so you’re wrong”. He never understood me or even tried to.
2026-11-13 14:50:35
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yep. he broke up w me bc of this.
2026-11-13 21:03:50
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Emrie 🪴 :
They take communication as an attack, when you’re just trying to keep your relationship healthy.
2026-11-13 03:38:05
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Angela 🔮✨ :
Either defensive or they don’t say anything at all
2026-11-13 05:01:28
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user015362 :
My ex’s favorite word was argue. Nothing could be a normal conversation. It was always “we always argue”. Turns out she didn’t want to be with me for years so it was just a way for her to push the narrative of us not being able to be together
2026-11-13 11:42:15
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Sarah H :
The worst cycle to get into.. is a relationship in general.
2026-11-13 00:17:23
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Wood :
Even walking away and comin back calm im still arguing somehow. I need a personal relationship therapist lmfao
2026-11-13 12:33:35
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JustAsh :
It’s exhausting.
2026-11-13 13:47:19
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GlizzyGabe :
Nothing like sending a giant text only to see the reply bubbles pop up 3 secs into the text being delivered lmao
2026-11-13 00:16:43
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urkailynmesmallz :
It’s a constant cycle
2026-11-13 20:35:21
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🗡ONESHOT🔥 :
im good im not hungry
2026-11-13 20:27:34
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graceevvy11 :
it always turned into me apologizing for being "insecure" just to avoid a bigger argument
2026-11-13 18:49:57
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birdiebabe111 :
Like why am I saying sorry because my feelings were hurt! 😩
2026-11-13 04:09:45
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Gemmalemma :
they decided to misunderstand
2026-11-13 01:14:26
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Buff Barbie 💖🎀 :
On and off for 9 months and I’m done. He can go find less
2026-11-13 03:53:57
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C✰ssie :
mf says i’m tryna start a fight so i can get space
2026-11-13 02:49:07
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Elynt :
lowkey (highkey) though if every time you try to explain why you’re hurt they think you’re arguing or they get defensive it might be a good idea to examine your approach to conversation. you have more agency here than you might realize it’s not always on them to translate your mind despite your efforts being from a good and virtuous place you still have the most agency
2026-11-12 21:59:39
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Savanah Ritch :
My entire childhood with my dad
2026-11-12 23:00:21
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Suhlayer :
This went on for months and months with me. Punished for opening up as a guy as ruined my ability to open up anymore
2026-11-13 02:01:11
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AstralAyla :
You described it to a T.💀
2026-11-13 05:22:41
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Sam Newell :
I did this for eight years
2026-11-12 23:20:32
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