@bennylichtenwalner: If you're in no contact with your ex and drafting a closure letter, sending it will erase all the time you've built up. Clearing up what they think about you, like that you cheated when you didn't, won't help now that the breakup has happened. Even after months apart, I'd never tell a client to lead with that. You're scared the connection fades if you don't hold on to it. Stop trying to do something. In no contact, or blocked? DM me BLACKOUT and I'll message you back.