@tonisbrokenbladder: sorry to be depressing but just had a horrid experience today again and I just don’t understand at all why it’s okay to speak to patients this way🙁#medicaltrauma #womenshealth #pain #chronicillness #medicalgaslighting
I feel this Toni, it’s so hard to deal with medical trauma (or ptsd/cptsd) esp when the services keep proving our bad experiences aren’t isolated. It’s really hard to try to be more trusting when they keep giving reasons not to trust them. I’m so sorry this is happening for you too❤️❤️x
2026-11-13 21:53:25
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Erin :
I know it’s no comfort but it really isn’t anything to do with you and the person you are 💞 it’s systematic failure
2026-11-13 19:51:04
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🥨 :
same, I just keep becoming more and more traumatized and no one seems to care at all
2026-11-13 22:17:48
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heart warrior, /savour :
i m the same as when they said it was all my head but i was going in heart fuller and was very poorly
2026-11-13 15:14:07
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Chronic Liz 🤎 :
So sorry my lovely 😔 it’s not acceptable ❤️❤️
2026-11-13 14:46:37
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Beth 🌷 :
Sending so much love to you! ❤️❤️
2026-11-13 16:52:41
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Roadworksahead :
I'm sorry your going through this, I have a chronic illness that I'm meant to get regular checks/ medication adjusted for and I haven't turnt up to a single appointment for this reason. I was told I had a 'negative mindset' but each time I turnt up hoping just someone would believe me.
2026-11-13 15:42:14
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Milly | Your bowel-less bestie :
I absolutely agree. It’s so disappointing everytime. Thinking of you [Red heart]
2026-11-13 20:37:51
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sophiesworldxoxx :
I’m so sorry the nhs needs to do better!
2026-11-13 22:04:03
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River’s Recovery💋❤️🖤 :
It’s fucking vile it’s because ur young. The judgement on young people with disabilities is so bad. I always get told it’s mental health even with diagnosed issues
2026-11-13 15:44:09
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Faith :
I’m so sorry Toni! You know I’m here for you, I know how horrible it can be exactly where you are. Sending you so much love angel ❤️xx
2026-11-13 14:46:09
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endometriosis__me :
I hear you girl 😔💔 I’m so sorry, it’s so so hard when your not heard and spoken to like crap when your so sick and all you want is help 😔
2026-11-13 17:12:26
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Izz 🤠🎗️💛 :
You want back up? I'll never understand people who work in healthCARE but don't CARE makes me so mad
2026-11-13 17:48:14
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bananablue86 :
Aw I hope it gets better Toni, I’ve had so many bad experiences in the hospital. I only go to appointments I really need and stopped going to see certain departments because of past medical trauma
2026-11-13 15:56:25
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₊˚⊹♡ :
Hope you’re okay💕🥺
2026-11-13 16:01:16
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Millie 🫶🏻 :
Im currently in hosptial the now 2 getting discarged today but the care has been okay im in for low blood sugar episodes and i hope your doing okay and getting the help you need xx
2026-11-13 15:01:20
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carleigh :
Oh my sweet girl I wish I could hug you :((
2026-11-13 17:28:54
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abs <3 :
im so sorry girl. you deserve so much better 🤍
2026-11-13 14:38:07
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Aimz :
I feel this I’m under 5 specicialitys and I can say my utility consultant is amazing with me but the rest are bad but I didn’t start if with a good consultant it wasn’t untill I had a hot clinic that he took over my care pathway and he’s been great but you are so right , they make you feel like your a inconvenience like no we are chronically ill xx
2026-11-13 18:13:53
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Elin :
Sending love ❤️
2026-11-13 18:55:30
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user35786425680 :
Is it somerhing in relation to your removed bladder? x
2026-11-13 15:17:15
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chronically_lils :
Love you Toni- breaks my heart seeing you go through this again 💔 after just going through it again myself this past week I think as much as we try and blame our trauma sadly the system is still broken and isn’t changing 🥺xxx
2026-11-13 14:42:05
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Katie Ford :
Exactly the same with my daughter - I’m so sorry you experience this and that is so common
2026-11-13 14:39:59
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Hannah Frost :
Yeah I don’t go into appointments, admissions or A&E expecting it to be different anymore because of this. But it means when it IS different it’s a really pleasant surprise that makes my day.
2026-11-13 15:13:57
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holfish :
So sorry girl it’s so common and so unfair ❤️🩹❤️🩹
2026-11-13 14:41:22
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