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AurraDundon :
I tell my husband all the time if the house is messy people will think it’s my issue, not his 😡
2026-11-13 16:16:13
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Brianna H. :
If my platonic friends can meet my standards why can’t a man
2026-11-13 16:36:12
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Sarah Kathleen Garcia :
and they have to nerve to be like "I'm trying my best" ... are you really? lol
2026-11-13 15:18:22
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Jessalyn Johnson :
My mon always said “if someone comes over and the house is messy they aren’t going to blame the man.”
2026-11-13 15:39:36
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KFost :
I told my husband that he has lower standards for cleanliness of our home because he doesn’t have to clean to live in a clean space. If I don’t clean, I do not have the same luxury.
2026-11-13 18:30:20
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Lynnedano :
I still don’t wear horizontal stripes.
2026-11-13 16:17:14
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Cooper Cottage Creations :
It’s so internalized that women start judging other women on it. I know someone that’s son got married and judges her daughter in law because the house is messy and sometimes the laundry doesn’t get done quickly. I’m like … why doesn’t your son clean it up then? Why is this her fault?
2026-11-13 16:10:09
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Emilie :
I also think men just don’t like being held to any standard, especially by women. It makes them defensive because they’re not used to it.
2026-11-13 17:41:49
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Mom :
Women also generally *care* about being socially acceptable but boys generally just don’t care. Being motivated to even learn the standards nevermind work to meet them goes a long way.
2026-11-13 16:29:41
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𝑅𝒶𝒸𝒽𝑒𝓁 🧸🎀🦢 :
YOU’RE RIGHT
2026-11-14 06:18:26
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rachel | TTS :
Or to “sit like a lady” while our brothers would be sitting on the other side of the couch upside down 😅
2026-11-13 15:55:45
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sirensaré :
My mother as a kid would try teaching me how to suck in my stomach to look skinny but she had children with the biggest person ever!!
2026-11-14 06:02:49
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meganleighb45 :
Me realizing I don’t own a single horizontal striped shirt. 🫠
2026-11-13 15:28:09
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𝕃𝕒𝕦𝕣𝕖𝕟 :
I just don’t thing they try to
2026-11-14 04:19:31
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Rachaelaburchett :
My ex would say my standards were too high all the time but when I asked which ones he couldn’t name them. Just *vibes*
2026-11-13 15:54:04
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Morgan Strickell :
I was 1.5 years younger than my sister and my brother was 1.5 years younger than me. The amount of time I would complain about him not cleaning something or doing his dishes and we would be told “he’s too young to do that” I was doing that same thing 3 years ago. It was so blatantly obvious in our house because of the age gaps being consistent. My parents also just often made me do the same things as my sisters at the same time.
2026-11-13 15:24:24
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Passionate Adventurer 🛶🏔️✨ :
THISSSSSSSSSS!
2026-11-14 03:09:05
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Rebecca Matthews :
Absolutely
2026-11-13 20:59:06
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Isaas 💋 :
As middle school girls we refrain from eating at parties and the boys wolf everything down
2026-11-13 15:26:14
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Lennoxxx :
i think you really just deconstructed the patriarchy in the best way possible.
2026-11-13 22:25:40
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libby lu :
To your point, We actually romanticize boys with messy hair
2026-11-13 17:33:17
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VioletHorizonsFarm :
Furthermore, if a boy is judged for his appearance or behavior, it isn't actually the boy who is judged. It's his mother. The mother is judged for how the boy presents in public.
2026-11-13 21:15:00
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maria cissa☆ :
and adding another layer to the conversation: men don’t have lower standards for women, their standards for us is just as high if not higher than our standards, we just decided to normalise men’s expectations as “bare minimum” for a woman but when we want them to match those expectations it’s “too much” for them
2026-11-14 01:10:23
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ednahere :
yup i can’t accept behavior that i couldn’t get away with at 10….
2026-11-13 16:55:57
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Chicago Planner :
Spot on! Men don't think THEY should work to better themselves and meet a higher standard. Men either expect women to do more work to account for their unwillingness to improve or for us women to lower our standards altogether.
2026-11-13 17:12:39
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