@saskiaclrk: also you don’t realise what trauma will literally do to your brain, it will make you say, do, act in ways you don’t recognise, and it’s not always rational. It’s not always perfect. But it’s traumatised, you are a changed person the moment you hear the words, I can’t imagine hearing those words about my child #slomw #aspynovard #cancer #secretlivesofmormonwives #hulu

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lindss_renee
Lindss :
It’s so kind of you to speak out on this while battling it yourself. You’re amazing. Praying for peace, endless blessings, and comfort for you. 💓
2026-11-14 23:34:01
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kathryntweddle
Katty :
YES Also she lives in the US, her cancer care won’t be free like the NHS and if she can make money to pay for additional care and experiences for her daughter… why would she not do that?
2026-11-13 20:04:03
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just_emilie_
Popsie Event Co. :
I totally get this, what I don’t get is her not letting the girls say goodbye to Parker properly. One day he won’t get to do it anymore for one of them.
2026-11-14 00:10:50
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kathyf105
Kathy F 📚 :
So silly people saying she should quit working altogether to spend time with her child. How is anyone going to not work for 3+ years? And she’s said how she feels like social media has stayed a “normal” feeling part of her life through it which makes so much sense
2026-11-13 20:19:42
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melindaajg
Melinda 🎗️ :
My 2 year old has a low survival rate with his cancer but I had to put him into nursery and go back to work after he finished treatment. Because you don’t get the privilege of benefits when your child is sick. We still have to pay a mortgage, pay for petrol to get him to the hospital. I would love to stay off work forever and spend all my time with him but it’s just not possible
2026-11-14 08:19:12
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Mic :
Also it’s important to have this on tv so other people can connect to her story! She can meet other people who will support her with shared experiences and vice versa.
2026-11-14 19:43:25
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reconnectingwithmii
Mii & Zion :
As a mom whose 8 year old son has incurable cancer also all the points you made are extremely true! I haven't watched the show but I can overstand why she choose to do the show. Sometimes it's also about doing something for yourself. Parent-Carers are human too. We need our own identity outside of the other roles we play. We can never move away from or forget what's going on with our children, the limbo doesn't stop. Sometimes we just need a moment where time just stops & for a split second of a moment everything is just still. Also, we try to create some form of normality for ourselves & our children. This is her job! She's working to be able to continue provide the life needed. Raising a disabled child isn't cheap. Being disabled isn't cheap! Let people live!
2026-11-14 00:48:47
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alyssa.ross712
Lyss ✨ :
Thank you I am disgusted by the way ppl are talking about her online
2026-11-14 19:10:59
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pacg__nkg
meeeeeeeeeeee0 :
especially if your watch her more recent vlogs she opened up how at the time she met Bri (her gf) she was not planning ahead at all. that she couldn't even think 6 months ahead and now more recently she is learning again how to be a person and look in the future. People on the show only see the now there is so much info missing.
2026-11-14 07:32:12
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airbnbuck
AirBnBuck :
I understand but every other parent has to go back to their normal job after loosing a kid. You can take time off ofc but not for 10 years
2026-11-14 09:02:48
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luxuryfashion91
fashionlover91 :
My dad has just beaten esophagus cancer for a 2nd time
2026-11-14 00:57:04
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amycass7
Amy Cass :
it's not the same, but my child was stillborn. people in my life questioned the things I did in that time of my life but it made sense for me when I was in fight or flight. I can imagine it's somewhat the same for aspyn, but dragged out over years and years and years, so no - I don't judge her for the things she's doing or saying. do I think she could be a bit nicer to parker? yes, but she's not in her right mind and hasn't been for years because her ONLY focus is her kids and I don't blame her at all
2026-11-14 13:44:01
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asmahassan140
Asma :
Exactly. Clearly the show will help finciancally as well. Another thing when people talking about long goodbyes— I understand Aspen in sense, try to act normal in front of the child maybe. Don’t make it burdensome for them💯💯
2026-11-14 15:36:24
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jmbottomley
Jess Bottomley 🇨🇦 :
Thanks for sharing ❤️❤️❤️
2026-11-14 15:34:03
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karliheron
karliheron :
THIS
2026-11-14 18:01:55
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samanthaanneexo
Sammy 🐝✨ :
She literally said it too, she’s trying to make as much money as possible so they can do nothing and grieve when their child dies. And people are still not getting it. It’s crazy!
2026-11-14 03:20:45
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greys_private.prac
Grace ☁️🍒🫶🏼 :
Also her child is TERMINALLY ILL and lives in the US where u have to pay insane amounts of medical bills so tell me how she’s supposed to pay those with no job? Yeah people should just stf and leave this women alone!
2026-11-14 00:42:48
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mazwafflez
Mimi :
The internet is being horrific to a mother who is clearly just trying to COPE and navigate her life with her daughter literally dying.
2026-11-14 21:50:04
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_becca19
Rebecca :
The people saying that it’s crazy for her to get into a throuple while her child is terminally ill are genuinely insane. First of all she only has her kids 50% of the time, second of all she desperately needs support, Bri and billy has given that to her and she’s still allowed to live her life as normally as she possibly can. It’s obvious that she really cares about her kids but she’s still allowed a life outside of cancer and her kids. Plus just to add to your point I’m pretty sure she likes to be in control of stuff
2026-11-14 12:33:59
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booksandbowie22
michaela :
She and Parker have made MILLIONS of dollars in the 15 years she’s been on YouTube and social media. If they don’t have enough in savings/investments to literally quit working tomorrow and be set for the rest of their lives and their kids lives, they absolutely did something wrong and have squandered their opportunities.
2026-11-14 07:30:18
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charlottieslife
Lotty :
She literally said to Parker she was doing all this so she can provide not only for her and the girls (plus the treatment for their daughter) but for him too so he doesn’t have to worry when it happens. Yet people are still talking shit. They watch these shows forgetting it’s peoples real lives, it isn’t all black and white and picking sides like they like to do. they are coping and surviving something horrific, they’re figuring it out and deserve grace.
2026-11-14 16:12:09
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picko051
picko051 :
[Red heart][Red heart]
2026-11-14 00:22:10
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_nena_bm
nena :
🥰🥰🥰
2026-11-14 11:44:38
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