@soulserenitywithrachel: The right questions make all the difference in your healing journey. #therapist #miamitherapist #detachment #relationshiptips #mindsetshift

Nikkita Othandekile Zwane :

you are correct….if I love myself so much why would I want someone who has hurt me ….it’s not like I really want him back ….he just triggered my abandonment wounds and I wanted to be chosen so bad ,even by someone who caused me great amount of pain

N'dea Moore :

I think you just unlocked something here.

andreaelizabeth1026 :

Yes your correct now what to do from here 🫣

Camille 💛 :

Hmm.. Good question 😭

giggi385 :

Stop!! Yes you are correct AGAIN. Ty!

dntneedtoknow :

why cant it be both? simultaneously

Tris | Personal Trainer :

Ohhhhhhhh ewwww this hurt my stomach 😭😭😭😭😭😭

Gunner :

mark canute

kaylenesimmons :

Good question

Bec Saunders :

Well, thank you.

huggywuggy4701 :

yeah i do want them back but they had a new person within a week, tell me the romantic feelings died and they want to pursue the other guy

notmyaccount784 :

Damn you get me every time with these 😭

Norma Aracely :

This! ☹️a lot of back and forth for YEARS. And it was never me but someone else. No contact for years now. But still, I need to get rid of this emotional feeling. Whatever it’s called. 😒

Quinn’s Build Log :

This page is a masterclass in setting boundaries while staying soft. So needed! 🫶✨

Stella :

I don't know... I just know that I miss him

dalaal777 :

oh ok u got me

jeffjfit :

Amazing question I want to be chosen and I want to be heard clearly ❤️💯

P a o l i :

I just did it today😭 literally 2hrs ago I had to stop letting him come back whenever he wants🔄, cause I had enough. I’m aware and accountable enough to notice and finally accept what his behavior actually means

Norms :

Ouch 🥲🥲

sharkslayer1983 :

I have no idea if this is the case with my ex gf. We’ve stayed in contact daily since the breakup a year ago. Even was on and off at times. We’re allegedly friends, but I just get so confused sometimes on what it is for her

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MEVALE101 :

damn

k͓̽ :

how do i stop this then

Kittihenn :

I don’t want anyone back, who chose anyone instead of me.

mariacontreras0813 :