And then they always disappear right before the weekend begins.. and then try to say hi on Tuesday
2026-11-14 07:37:50
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Meagan Buckland :
I got on Facebook Dating, matched with a few guys, and NOTHING. Not a single one messaged me first. So I thought, surely this has to be a glitch. 🤨 Matched with a few more and STILL NOTHING. Are these men seriously expecting us to make the first move now?! 😵💫😂
2026-11-14 05:16:21
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Lisa Renee :
Girl me too!!!! I opened my age range to 26-39, I’m 34. Why did a 38yo man ask me for my Snapchat after saying hi
2026-11-14 07:51:29
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Angel fire :
He’s in a relationship
2026-11-14 23:17:14
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Amy Doyle :
I don’t give out my number until we have met in person…..you would be shocked how quickly I get unmatched the minute I inform them of that. I’d say 9 out of 10 men immediately unmatch
2026-11-14 04:20:07
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Emilia :
Girl these men are weird.
2026-11-14 23:15:29
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Naomi :
I didnt give out my number until after the first date... if i enjoyed it.
2026-11-14 03:55:07
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dandi_deedee :
Because it’s only about validating them. They just want someone to chit chat with and never get serious.
2026-11-14 15:04:58
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💙EmpressEnergy💙 :
They’re not actually single, they’re just clowning
2026-11-14 05:00:55
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Michele47 :
Banter, they want banter.
2026-11-14 23:05:19
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𝒟ℰℰ :
I love that we all have basically the same exact experience with these apps😭😭. Him:”what do you have going on this week?” Me:“ not too much. I work until about 3 PM on weekdays but I have weekends off” Him:“OK, cool. Let me know when you’re available” Me: “……….”
2026-11-14 08:16:34
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halloweedenn :
The worst is when they doge any opportunity to plan or schedule a date and they don’t respond but then you’re hit with the “come over” text later in the evening…like who is that working on?? Who is moving like that and finding success??
2026-11-14 06:03:56
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cottoncandy :
thank you! I hate the penpal epidemic men love doing these days. Like we’re both grown adults with work schedules. Work is work. Sleep is sleep. You don’t have to keep asking how either went every single day. Ask me on a date or leave me alone 😭
2026-11-14 09:38:17
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Jess :
ATP I lowkey treat dating apps like a zoo. I have no intention of interacting with anyone on them, I just look at the exhibits, confirm my disinterest in what the market offers, and close the app until I’m curious what new creatures have been imported. I have no vested interest in actually matching/dating anymore tbh. It’s too exhausting.
2026-11-14 23:09:23
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LoBro1218 :
That’s soooo annoying. Something that seems to be working for me is saying “let’s get our date planned on here (hinge) and then switch to text”, and then I don’t give them my number until we have a day/time/location. I found that they either plan the date or they don’t, but it really prevents the pen pal thing and the duds who won’t plan a date don’t have my number to say “hey how’s your week been” twice a month until we die. Could be worth a shot!
2026-11-14 02:11:15
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Amanda Adams :
Yeah, that’s happened to me three times, three strikes your out. I’m done! I think men get a sick thrill out of talking to women, getting them interested and asking them out and then ghosting them. I’m sure they stand around talking about how many women they have ghosted and compare notes.
2026-11-14 07:10:47
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Mary - Life in Chaos :
I always get “WYD?” Oh, and “good morning beautiful”. Then….. nothing. Annoying! I’m just done.
2026-11-14 11:56:43
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DystRTR :
I was talking to a guy, was going well. Had a date planned. Ghosted me and then sent me a like AGAIN on tinder 😂💀💀💀
2026-11-14 17:37:42
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The Greatest Tik :
Men just have so many options today
2026-11-14 05:42:47
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India Taylor938 :
“I don’t care about your day” 🤣 ☠️
2026-11-14 03:54:56
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Consequential :
It is not male loneliness epidemic. It’s the female loneliness epidemic. All women do online is complain 😂 men are chilling
2026-11-14 07:17:07
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Oblivia :
I spent 3 weeks non stop being a pen pal & 4 hrs before the first date he said he wasn’t ready to date 😂
2026-11-14 14:29:35
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BasicBenni :
They probably went with someone else who they felt a better connection with. Maybe even someone who wants to hear about their day. Crazy I know
2026-11-14 08:17:12
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Velky 🌜✨ :
It’s shocking. They will not take us out on dates. I just unmatch after 24 hours if a date is not set. These men are motivated lazy and just want a pen pal.
2026-11-14 06:46:18
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