Claiming that every homophobe is secretly, gay is in fact homophobic. This includes politicians
2026-11-15 16:02:04
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Kylerxvx :
All 10 of them? No.
2026-11-15 03:45:27
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Lizzy 🍉 :
literally it’s such a dogshit take. it’s just repackaged misogyny being used towards gay men.
2026-11-15 02:11:40
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RumRumRumTrey :
Women are sometimes a LITTLE delusional about men. Especially gay men, please stop thinking men just can't be assholes.
2026-11-15 05:40:25
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pupexe :
Not to mention if this implication got to those 10 boys, it's going to escalate the violence against him. Straight men defending their identity kill people to protect themselves
2026-11-15 04:51:36
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ghostpurr :
it sounds like "he is mean because he likes you " they say to girls .
they bully whoever is different and whoever they were taught to bully
2026-11-15 10:54:35
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edo_fatali :
Litterally ANYTHING to not hold straight men accountable. Everytime they say this "you're a bad person, you must be gay" thing it's like... tf did WE do???
2026-11-15 20:29:12
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Sam :
Every straight man I know is homophobic, but I also don’t know many straight men outside of my family lol
2026-11-15 02:02:07
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✨ :
she also said "choice of sexuality" and I was like uh oh....
2026-11-15 05:06:11
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seynique :
I hate hate hate how popular this notion has become! Like the implications are awful
2026-11-15 02:50:42
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alxxabe11e :
i was about to say it also perpetuates the idea that boys are mean to people they have a crush on and thst that is somehow okay and normal when its not but you said it for mee
2026-11-15 02:04:13
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Cameron :
people who push this and refuse to acknowledge that there are some people that are just hateful and homophobic and that gets people hurt or worse it can genuinely be so very dangerous even when done with genuine good intent.
2026-11-15 20:37:38
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yungdriftinglight :
and even if they are gay what does that change😭😭😭 the gay kid still gets bullied no matter the bullies reason for it
2026-11-15 21:33:20
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🍫🌮😽 :
"they hate you because they're secretly gay" is the equivalent of "he's just pulling your pigtails because he likes you" no,they are just cruel bullies regardless of their feelings whatever they may be. thats just letting them off the hook for their behavior.
2026-11-15 06:46:56
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avawatermelon1 :
All 10… all 10 of the boys… yeah that’s just not realistic
2026-11-15 14:41:55
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Maddie :
This is literally never the case those why do people say that every time 😭
2026-11-15 02:57:10
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Abbi Louise875 :
I'm pretty sure that mostly just happens in politics (cough Lindsay cough) and Glee
2026-11-15 21:14:47
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pinkysue_loo :
Nooooooo noooo as a former teacher this is such a bad take
2026-11-15 16:41:26
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Casey :
it also teaches them to ignore very clear red flags that someone is unsafe and DOES wish them harm. Which could keep them from leaving a dangerous situation and lead to someone taking advantage of that and harming them.
2026-11-15 02:47:39
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avereynotfound :
she’s gonna make it worse if they find it. they’ll be forced to prove it
2026-11-15 16:05:37
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Chase Bowater ⛰️🪶🌲 :
also it feels like the regurgitated "if he's mean to you he likes you" rhetoric that young girls are fed about mean boys that statistically lead to those girls dating abusive men when they become women. like we don't want young boys choosing abusive men when they grow up because "he's mean which means he has a crush on you"
2026-11-15 05:24:16
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Stephan :
I have felt this way for so long. Thank you for putting a voice to it. Doubtless some men who antagonize other men for being gay are in fact, gave themselves, statistically speaking that's virtually unavoidable. But to suggest that it's even the majority? Nope. Homophobia spreads so easily through male spaces. It's not because most men are gay.
2026-11-15 04:40:34
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localk13📚 :
Bullying is ALWAYS WITHOUT EXCEPTION about POWER DYNAMICS. It’s really quite simple. They’re bullying him because society deemed him to have less social power not because of some secret motives 😡
2026-11-15 06:17:27
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Xmas Elephant 🐘🎄 :
Maybe one, in rare cases 2, but the 10 of them? virtually impossible.
2026-11-15 10:47:57
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KvnG 👑 :
I’ve been saying this for longest time
2026-11-15 07:29:30
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