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‼️ Here’s what I wouldn’t do… If my DIL pulls away (or needs to recharge) I’d make sure to give her space. ❌ I wouldn’t chase or reach for her more. Sometimes we can try to make ourselves feel better by reaching for the person who may need a breather, which can make them pull away further. When I go through my bouts where I need to take a break, my MIL will text me things like “No need to respond, just thinking about you and hope x is going well.” ❌ I wouldn’t put my son in the middle. It sounds like the times you have asked him, he always gives you the same answer, “Mom, she’s just busy, nothing’s wrong.” I’d choose to believe them. ❌ I wouldn’t allow my brain to ruminate. When I worry about a relationship but the person keeps telling me everything's fine, I keep a running list of the positive moments and the ways they've shown the relationship is solid. When the worry creeps back in, I have real evidence to reassure myself. I hope this helps! 💛 You sound like a wonderful MIL and like you’ve built a trusting relationship with your DIL. One where she knows when she needs a break she can, and she feels confident that you’ll be there when she’s ready to come back. Hats off to you and keep us posted if this reframe helps! PSA - this story was shared by one of you for educational and reflective purposes only. Not meant to replace advice or treatment from licensed professionals.  Thanks so much for watching, and supporting those who write in asking for your wise insight. 💛 #boundaries #storytime #relationshipadvice #MIL #DIL
‼️ Here’s what I wouldn’t do… If my DIL pulls away (or needs to recharge) I’d make sure to give her space. ❌ I wouldn’t chase or reach for her more. Sometimes we can try to make ourselves feel better by reaching for the person who may need a breather, which can make them pull away further. When I go through my bouts where I need to take a break, my MIL will text me things like “No need to respond, just thinking about you and hope x is going well.” ❌ I wouldn’t put my son in the middle. It sounds like the times you have asked him, he always gives you the same answer, “Mom, she’s just busy, nothing’s wrong.” I’d choose to believe them. ❌ I wouldn’t allow my brain to ruminate. When I worry about a relationship but the person keeps telling me everything's fine, I keep a running list of the positive moments and the ways they've shown the relationship is solid. When the worry creeps back in, I have real evidence to reassure myself. I hope this helps! 💛 You sound like a wonderful MIL and like you’ve built a trusting relationship with your DIL. One where she knows when she needs a break she can, and she feels confident that you’ll be there when she’s ready to come back. Hats off to you and keep us posted if this reframe helps! PSA - this story was shared by one of you for educational and reflective purposes only. Not meant to replace advice or treatment from licensed professionals. Thanks so much for watching, and supporting those who write in asking for your wise insight. 💛 #boundaries #storytime #relationshipadvice #MIL #DIL

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