@drjudithjoseph: Replying to @coolchristgirl when you grow up in a home where the people who love you and are supposed to protect you force you to choose sides, you might grow up with a lack of trust in people. This type of trauma may lead you to develop impulsive defense mechanisms like splitting or all or nothing thinking that cause you to make extreme decisions about your relationships.
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Tuesday 25 April 2023 19:52:01 GMT
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QueenMyMy | Commentary :
🫴🏽✨Avoidant Attachment Style✨🤌🏾
2023-04-25 20:43:37
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🏎️ :
BPD, self isolation, avoidant attachment
2023-04-26 05:46:59
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Kahh.ni :
and a fearful avoidant attachment is born 🥰 can’t forget the people pleasing 🙃
2023-04-25 21:13:56
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TOXIC BAE INCORPORATED :
To be fair it’s not soooooo bad if you ask me🤣 I don’t give people the audacity to get bold with their disrespect
2023-04-26 07:19:24
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Leamarinee :
I just had an extreme revelation
2023-04-25 20:48:06
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a.simp.account :
and then they're like Why don't you date? Why don't you trust anyone?
2023-04-28 12:41:33
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glowminy 🍉 :
I mean most of the time people are indeed shady so rather be alone
2023-04-26 21:20:18
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TheeAriessPrincess 🎀 :
I love being by myself(.)
2023-05-09 07:31:02
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Coolchristiangirl :
Thank you, Idk how much I needed to hear this. I honestly cut people off before they are even shady and assume the worst
2023-04-25 20:29:20
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freak marcus :
Except they compare you to the other parent all the time so you think you have no redeeming qualities and don’t deserve love!
2023-04-27 02:08:07
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ley.grinchem :
real.
2023-05-06 20:32:09
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belle :
both my parents did that and i just know their expirences with each other are different and are based off of their own feelings so truth = relative
2023-05-03 16:39:58
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Erionna💕 :
It makes it hard for me to tell if the things my bf does are deal breakers or a defense mechanism. Anything mildly upsetting has me like 🤨💃🏽
2023-04-27 19:24:31
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free_enjelickiagh :
oh.
2023-05-02 20:26:13
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maliyah 🐆 :
WHY IS THIS SO ACCURATE
2023-04-25 20:57:49
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lou :
this but i have bpd too
2023-04-30 05:39:35
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191712 :
The “for YOU page” 😳
2023-04-25 20:12:07
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user9284015414726 :
The way this slapped me in the face 😂😂😂
2023-04-26 03:30:59
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noah :
spot on 😭😭
2023-05-02 17:42:46
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Michelle Madrigal :
My whole life prior to therapy 😅
2023-05-05 16:48:00
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Ojos Verdes :
How do we start healing from this 🥺
2023-05-02 22:22:43
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DakineSnippa :
Gosh darn it I’m a farmer now?😭😩
2023-05-01 22:47:12
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loevallredd :
Trying my best to turn this into a good thing❤️
2023-05-04 14:59:03
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Darian Aliyah :
& having to be the oldest daughter at that.
2023-05-15 02:56:42
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🫖 :
I’m fearful avoidant thanks to my parents. I either dip, or become too obsessed. Make it make sense. 🥲
2023-05-13 18:51:21
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