@drjudithjoseph: Replying to @coolchristgirl when you grow up in a home where the people who love you and are supposed to protect you force you to choose sides, you might grow up with a lack of trust in people. This type of trauma may lead you to develop impulsive defense mechanisms like splitting or all or nothing thinking that cause you to make extreme decisions about your relationships.

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queenmymy649
QueenMyMy | Commentary :
🫴🏽✨Avoidant Attachment Style✨🤌🏾
2023-04-25 20:43:37
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goooeeyyyyy
🏎️ :
BPD, self isolation, avoidant attachment
2023-04-26 05:46:59
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kahh.ni
Kahh.ni :
and a fearful avoidant attachment is born 🥰 can’t forget the people pleasing 🙃
2023-04-25 21:13:56
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syyabully
TOXIC BAE INCORPORATED :
To be fair it’s not soooooo bad if you ask me🤣 I don’t give people the audacity to get bold with their disrespect
2023-04-26 07:19:24
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leamarinee
Leamarinee :
I just had an extreme revelation
2023-04-25 20:48:06
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a.simp.account
a.simp.account :
and then they're like Why don't you date? Why don't you trust anyone?
2023-04-28 12:41:33
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glowminy
glowminy 🍉 :
I mean most of the time people are indeed shady so rather be alone
2023-04-26 21:20:18
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theariessprincess
TheeAriessPrincess 🎀 :
I love being by myself(.)
2023-05-09 07:31:02
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coolchristgirl
Coolchristiangirl :
Thank you, Idk how much I needed to hear this. I honestly cut people off before they are even shady and assume the worst
2023-04-25 20:29:20
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buymetherapy420
freak marcus :
Except they compare you to the other parent all the time so you think you have no redeeming qualities and don’t deserve love!
2023-04-27 02:08:07
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ley.grinchem
ley.grinchem :
real.
2023-05-06 20:32:09
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bella_090_
belle :
both my parents did that and i just know their expirences with each other are different and are based off of their own feelings so truth = relative
2023-05-03 16:39:58
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erionna_c
Erionna💕 :
It makes it hard for me to tell if the things my bf does are deal breakers or a defense mechanism. Anything mildly upsetting has me like 🤨💃🏽
2023-04-27 19:24:31
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free_enjelickiagh
free_enjelickiagh :
oh.
2023-05-02 20:26:13
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mliyah224
maliyah 🐆 :
WHY IS THIS SO ACCURATE
2023-04-25 20:57:49
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heartsh6ker
lou :
this but i have bpd too
2023-04-30 05:39:35
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hw191712
191712 :
The “for YOU page” 😳
2023-04-25 20:12:07
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cecilia_chanel
user9284015414726 :
The way this slapped me in the face 😂😂😂
2023-04-26 03:30:59
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cerealwoatmilk
noah :
spot on 😭😭
2023-05-02 17:42:46
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_helloitsmichellee
Michelle Madrigal :
My whole life prior to therapy 😅
2023-05-05 16:48:00
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msbrisby
Ojos Verdes :
How do we start healing from this 🥺
2023-05-02 22:22:43
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dakine.snippa
DakineSnippa :
Gosh darn it I’m a farmer now?😭😩
2023-05-01 22:47:12
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loevall.was.here
loevallredd :
Trying my best to turn this into a good thing❤️
2023-05-04 14:59:03
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darianaliyah
Darian Aliyah :
& having to be the oldest daughter at that.
2023-05-15 02:56:42
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saintsatann
🫖 :
I’m fearful avoidant thanks to my parents. I either dip, or become too obsessed. Make it make sense. 🥲
2023-05-13 18:51:21
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