Claire Auden
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Jess👸🏼 :
He discarded me 8 weeks ago. It’s debilitating. I am struggling so much with cognitive dissonance. I really don’t know how to move on from this
2024-04-25 13:36:51
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Skeliku :
I am there right now. I feel terrified and lost. Constantly fighting wanting to be back in that “comfort zone” even after seeing the true emotionless monster he is when his masks fell….
2024-04-25 15:47:21
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B21 :
We should all meet on Facebook group or so
2024-04-26 09:06:32
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GG_BB :
Everything you’ve said in your videos has comforted me. You touch on so many things no one else talks about on social media. I truly can’t thank you enough.
2024-07-10 05:48:37
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Racey Tracy :
😔 Trauma bonds are horrible 💔
2024-07-07 19:23:13
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Meghan Jackson :
I did. complete reset week in Bali, i prayed, i cried and I came back reset and removed. Now I meditate every morning and stay far away
2024-04-25 21:14:12
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diariesof_elise :
Okay girlies. I am one year out of my marriage with the narcissist and I can tell you that it does get better. Like Foreal. The first 8 months (for me) was a ton of cognitive dissonance.
2024-06-02 01:28:04
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Ajo 😢🇺🇸😭 :
This is me… I want to call him soooo badly… but know if I do he is going to be the same person he was before and I’m gonna be hurt again.
2024-06-29 23:45:59
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winterwander0🇨🇦 :
Sometimes it feels like I'm secretly watching these videos. Like I shouldn't be and someone will be angry with me for doing so.
2024-07-08 07:28:19
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sista.krista :
Totally. I was super lucky I had a friend who helped me discern reality almost daily for maybe a year.
2024-07-09 16:02:06
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naliyah 🦋 :
I’m so confused bc I feel like I was the narcissist and i know I’m not perfect but it’s like my head spins between knowing I deserve better vs feeling like the enemy
2024-05-06 15:02:31
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London J.🏳️🌈 :
Currently trying to leave my narcissist now. These videos really do help
2024-06-29 13:01:13
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Jessica Alexandria :
I’m going through this right now. My family has told me that my relationship with them will suffer if I take him back. It’s the only thing that has kept me from begging him to come back after I dumped
2024-07-02 05:36:41
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Bigredd88 :
🥺 I’m going through this right now I’m in no contact mode and it’s hard but I refuse to subject myself to his foolery any longer
2024-06-28 09:52:47
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karen_quinney :
They take up so much of your life!
2024-04-25 07:57:58
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charne :
pls hlp met. I left him but I just cnt stop thinking about him feels like I cnt live wth out him I no he's wrong for me...... everyday feels like hell ... agtr leaving him
2024-04-25 07:27:10
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John Horning :
It’s amazing how crazy I thought I was. Until I across your TikTok. 80% of everything you say has been true. Ty
2024-04-25 10:06:21
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Lindylou :
32 yrs in. %100 facts. On my way out. 🙏🏼❤️🩹🙏🏼
2024-04-25 10:12:48
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Aileen Faye :
It’s so important you have someone keeping you real
2024-04-25 12:00:27
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user6611699206791 :
oh my goodness my experience,i watch this kind of videos daily because wow, sometimes I forget which Way is up or down
2024-04-25 07:27:36
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quietflameboys :
Mainly just starting to enjoy things I like again you know what? I’m really enjoying. It’s odd sleeping in bed alone.
2024-04-25 08:35:17
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naty_pepi :
It’s been 4mo NC and I still need it, yes! I’m fighting everyday the urges
2024-04-25 09:40:42
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Heather Johnson :
Crazy to live it then watch someone describe my life!!!!
2024-04-25 09:15:06
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Sabra :
9 months of this and at a year I still need a lot of validation sometimes! The struggle is real!
2024-04-25 19:36:10
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Sarah Perez 🐯 :
This is exactly what I have been doing. Your videos have taught me and are helping me so much
2024-04-25 13:02:24
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Angel Clark :
Going thru it now and I am a mess. I don’t want to be around anyone
2024-05-03 21:28:25
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KatChild3 :
I literally don’t know what to do
2024-05-11 21:35:44
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Alma López :
Tik Tok was and still is my Therapy!
2024-06-26 02:44:07
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Danigurl🦮🏇🌅 :
I’m going through it , my family is just as worse as my ex so I found myself with no external support. My therapist is my saver tho. And journal 💜
2024-04-27 17:42:16
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ivypineiro :
For me it helped seeing it as one day at a time. Surviving one day. I started to plan my day to keep myself distracted. I when out to get coffee, exercise, learn recipes, listen to relaxing music.
2024-06-15 13:59:14
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Anna Armstrong :
The rage I’ve been feeling is unmatched. Like I’ve turned into an anger filled monster. 😭
2024-06-14 04:13:08
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Luna :
Omg this is me so I stop myself from reaching out. I’ve been feeling crazy
2024-04-25 07:29:29
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AquaThoughts777 :
The doubt is unbelievable. At a time in my life where I’ve never loved myself more, this also has occurred. It’s completed twisted my mind…. The doubt strikes like lightning….
2024-06-03 12:15:30
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Natalie Robinson :
I am going through this right now. It’s day 4 and I’m regretting leaving so much and I know it’s wrong. 😭
2024-06-05 17:28:20
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laracroft1529 :
Breaking a trauma bond is the worse thing most difficult I’ve ever had to do and I’m struggling so much 😫 💔
2024-06-08 16:41:01
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Kori :
I gave in and begged for him to be with me and it made things so much worse. I’ve had to heavily lean on my family & friends through this. I had to call my mom sobbing because I was so close to..
2024-05-31 17:23:30
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Kirsten Roche :
Literally thought I was the problem. Thought I was shouting etc. But then I listened to a recording of when I was moving my things out. I was SO calm.. He was screaming at me, goading me on to bite..
2024-06-13 19:42:47
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Book Publishing Academy :
I went through my journal and made a spreadsheet of every single abuse. That helped with cognitive dissonance
2024-06-09 09:27:57
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user8130334023527 :
I’m still craving him and it’s been nearly 10 months arrrggg !!!!
2024-04-25 12:55:00
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WolfieRose303 :
Me watching videos and listening to podcasts about narcissistic abuse seeing this - good to know that’s normal. This external validation literally saved me.
2024-04-26 03:04:04
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cherylhunter28 :
Yes, going through this now 😢
2024-04-26 10:51:53
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Andrea :
Yes! Tictok made me feel seen and that I wasn’t going crazy
2024-04-27 00:54:56
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Rebekah🖤👽 :
The book “Letting Go” by David Hawkins helped me so much. Please check it out. It’s hard but it gets better.
2024-04-25 11:11:24
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Jess :
I needed this video. Being in therapy, researching and trying to retrain the brain. It's been 9 months done, 6 months moved out. The struggle is real 💯
2024-04-26 02:51:27
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Holler Hunny :
I’ll never get out of this. Ever. I’m finally aware after so many years and I keep thinking I’m out and I’m not.
2024-04-26 02:52:57
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Mizdaizy :
This right here has explained everything i have been feeling since my discard by him. You explained this feeling 100% on how a victim feels.. 💔
2024-04-25 10:50:38
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Ashley :
Thank you for being here for us. ❤️
2024-04-26 12:47:49
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Ceci :
Claire, is the narcissist aware of all the damage he or she makes?
2024-04-26 22:58:05
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Dark :
really tough to create....🥺
2024-05-14 23:51:14
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H 🎀 :
I could not live in a fantasy world with him. I deserve love and respect. All of you do too!
2024-04-30 13:39:55
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Stargirl :
Thank you SO MUCH I felt so much shame for talking about my situation for so long but I really really needed that external processing with others
2024-06-04 13:05:23
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Rebecca Cartier :
I’ve been struggling with this for almost 2 years. I honestly don’t know what happened and what didn’t anymore. My friends tell me things that happened and I genuinely cannot remember any of it.
2024-04-30 22:21:20
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thomas_private117 :
Yesss this is why I keep going to my trauma therapist, I keep trying to be open with my friends about what he is doing, and I keep trying to check his devices because I need to see that he is still ch
2024-05-01 21:42:52
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Linda Mermaid 💙 :
I went ‘no unnecessary contact or conversation’ w/ my husband 6 weeks ago. Currently figuring out how to pack all my 💩 & move elsewhere. I have no more tears left. Love bombing is underway. 😬
2024-05-03 03:08:30
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Dark :
@RinuArt21 he's doing this 💯💀
2024-05-14 23:52:10
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wendyslay97 :
It's inspiration knowing that I'm not the problem hearing almost exact description of my life . I've wasted so much time. I'm not weak. I speak power over this trauma Bond in Jesus name Amen.
2024-06-22 19:17:51
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Archive by Amy :
Im in this right now. My partner was also my business partner. He quit and I had to close my business u til I figure it out. I'm lost. I can't even think. I have so many things to figure out now.
2024-06-13 03:54:29
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Alice Harleen Quinzel :
it's terrible to go through but once you start healing and experience different you know you can never go back
2024-07-05 23:18:10
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bradyn | medical aesthetician✨ :
i was just “discarded” today from my dad😐
2024-04-25 08:45:13
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