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𝓕𝓻𝓮𝓪𝓴𝔂 beck :
isn’t that how a conversation works i’m confused
2024-07-28 08:14:43
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˙˚꧁𝙼𝚘𝚝𝚑꧂˚˙ :
"Ok?? This isn't about you" sorry I'm trying to relate and feel empathy
2024-07-27 22:43:32
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SincerelyMissSarah :
I’ve done this my whole life and was devastated when I learned that wasn’t an acceptable thing to do/ people didn’t take it as me relating to them 😭
2024-07-26 23:27:20
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catlover582 :
what else am i supposed to say??
2024-07-28 18:02:17
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Madireads2much :
Were excited to have somthing in common with ppl and not do small talk
2024-06-30 21:45:24
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law and luffy meatrider🇵🇸 :
I’m not diagnosed with anything but I do this all the time. I get so scared that I’m being attention seeking ☹️
2024-07-27 22:09:00
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siur 💗 :
I DIDNT EVEN REALIZE PEOPLE COULD PERCEIVE IT LIKE THAT........ is this why i never had many friends
2024-07-29 10:16:57
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Kaity Falk :
That's why I always comment on theirs, share mine, then re-comment on theirs. Just jumping into the story about yourself pisses me off so I try not to do it that way to others.
2024-07-01 01:18:56
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🎀 Peachie! 🎀 :
This but I feel like we gotta learn to acknowledge the other person and what they said first, bc just going into your own story/related tangent seems dismissive of what the other person said
2024-07-27 20:45:25
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fish 🍉 :
i struggle w empathy so bad, like genuine heartfelt empathy. i just dont understand why people feel the need to care about others, i try to be nice and if someone tells me they r sad i js think of-
2024-09-03 23:59:00
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cheeseburt :
usually the misunderstanding is when you don't respond to their story first, before jumping into your own. it's like you're ignoring them.
2024-06-30 19:47:39
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Harmony Marie :
Thank you the amount of times I’ve had friends basically stop being my friend cause they think I make everything about myself liek nah girl I just don’t know how to explain myself
2024-08-26 15:20:24
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AJ🦟 :
if you don't want someone talking about their own stuff, just politely say that! I've had friends say hey I just kinda wanted to vent, and that's completely okay! just be polite about it
2024-07-27 03:00:51
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You Deserve Peace :
i wish ppl saw it as a sign of us actively listening instead of making the convo about us :(( its so valid but ughhhh
2024-07-29 17:28:38
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Kayla Kunz :
But as someone with ADHD and having friends with ADHD, it can also be invalidating when you just want someone to listen to you. Just have to know when it’s appropriate ☺️
2024-07-22 19:22:01
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d4bble :
I do this typa stuff to show im listening instead of just saying “ahuh… yeah…. Mhm..”
2024-08-24 20:37:02
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epic :
wait what you aren't meant to do this
2024-07-28 05:30:45
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helene⁷⟭⟬ :
Another sign I might have adhd and/or autism😭🙏
2024-07-30 13:17:45
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arboristpowers :
I'm really bad about this and try so hard not to do it.
2024-06-30 22:11:21
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🦊 :
see I have autism but I still hate this because I usually get interrupted when I'm trying to share something personal
2024-07-27 08:45:02
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ely :
relating≠comparing we try to relate in order to help solve a problem i will tell you what happened to me, tell you the solutions i used and tell you the consequenses to my actions
2024-07-28 13:17:35
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HADES 🖤 :
“this isnt about you” like im literally conversing with you and showing i relate ??? do you want me to just not reply at all then !! 😭 i never understood that and it always made me feel bad
2024-08-24 07:17:03
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gay DiGiMEOW🐾 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈 :
this is so true like i swear i’m not trying to ignore you i’m just excited that we have smtn in common
2024-07-27 17:37:02
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robin :
maybe unpopular but I like it when someone responds to my struggle with something they went through that's similar. it makes me feel less alone. as long as they acknowledge my story too it's fine
2024-07-27 06:15:45
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