Dating an avoidant is extremely difficult. Esp for someone like me (transitioning from anxious to secure)
2024-12-19 12:43:15
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Girl_on_Film :
I agree with this. My ex saw any conflict as not normal in relationships. That any conflict meant incompatibility. I think because his parents don't communicate with each other about hards things.
2024-12-21 15:51:29
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RaiderCaliGirl 🖤 :
No. They just want the fun easy stuff. When hard times comes they get gone. My Ex
2024-12-22 05:12:27
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Suki ᥫ᭡ :
His FYP
2024-12-23 06:49:03
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sosig :
As an avoidant understanding this is often a blind spot we recognise fear of closeness but conflict avoidance is often missed. Honestly realises conflict and hard convos is healthy
2024-12-20 00:03:43
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Brandy Mayle :
I just saved this video and realized I’m not gonna be able to come back to it after Sunday. I need all my saved TikTok videos 🥺
2025-01-18 15:44:39
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Favi :
He doesn’t want hard conversations he doesn’t want any type of conversation. He tells me I take everything to heart so he doesn’t want to talk to me. I don’t feel like my feelings are valued at all 😢
2024-12-20 00:42:57
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1brunetteand2redheads :
Thank you. Just ended my relationship with an avoidant and am hurting. Needed to hear this. ❤️
2024-12-19 17:09:59
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✨S H E L L E Y✨ :
I really really really really really REALLY WISH THIS WOULD SHOW UP ON HIS FYP
2024-12-20 07:26:56
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Lily :
Thank you . I needed to hear this . I needed some validation after feeling like I was the one always causing problems. But maybe there were problems because he wasn’t there to help me solve them.
2024-12-22 11:49:29
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East :
It’s funny how they try to gaslight you and make it your mistake for not having deep conversations when they avoid those types of conversations
Got rid of mine - too hard I would not want to live that way for the rest of my life
2025-01-12 20:56:33
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Jessica :
It’s to the point I’m seeking therapy on how to cope with the lack of communication
2025-01-31 15:12:52
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butterflydreams36 :
the person I'm with doesn't talk but will listen and that is also hard I need we need there needs to be communication and that requires both people....help what do I do
2024-12-22 05:25:43
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JillianSprouse :
Thank you for bringing awareness to a realistic relationship! Amen 🙏
2025-01-11 03:07:34
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User11:11 :
Took the words right out of my mouth!!! That’s what I said and guess what? …… he deactivated and left me… surprise! It was amazing when it was just fun but yeah at some point feelings will com into it
2025-02-16 03:42:55
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Virginia Crawford :
RUNNNNNNNNN
2024-12-29 00:08:50
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Shannon Martini :
their fyp not mine!!!
2025-01-15 03:34:18
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Lexia :
I know. I'm anxious my bf avoidant. Talks are difficult.. but with patience, understanding where it comes from, love & trust.. we get there. But it ain't easy.
2024-12-22 07:17:05
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✨☥Meek_Divine☥✨ :
This!💯💯💯
2024-12-30 08:35:13
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VIRGIL'S MATHEMATICS COACHING :
life is a balance
2025-01-20 01:24:04
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Olivia :
it is excruciating trying to have a hard conversation with an avoidant, especially when they are never willing to talk on the phone 😭
2024-12-21 16:16:07
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