@itsnickholiday: HOW THEY TEACH KIDS TO BE INDEPENDENT IN JAPAN #japan #japanese #foryoupage #fyp #family

Lizz DoubleZ :

It's SO HARD to see your kid struggle, but it's SO NECESSARY

Ash :

Its important that the dad still waited for the kid to overcome the obstacles and then congratulated him when he got it!

GoldenLuis_ :

I feel like every country is advancing but the US 😅

wxctzndys :

Just tell him to be independent bro

Username69er :

in the US, if you lose a soccer game, you still get a prize

Amelia Nicole. :

The kids in Japan are very independent and self aware. Took me by surprise the first year of being here

iii_icon :

The immediate clapping from the dad for him figuring it out himself is awesome

M :

I’d def provide words of encouragement and congratulate the child after. This interaction doesn’t have to be cold.

Big blue :

This creates critical thinkers

StaciV :

“Productive struggle” is so important for developing problem solving, critical thinking, coping mechanisms, and self esteem.

Fat Serbian GOAT🐴 :

my dad did this but never came back after 18 yrs

LoveAndBlessings :

he’ll gain strong problem solving skills!

PolarPuph :

But when Elon does it, it’s a problem 🤷🏻‍♀️

The Great Doheny :

I just take then on a boat and throw them into a lake. Bonus, it also teaches them to swim.

cruz12141214 :

And you saw dad was watching from a distance to make sure he was safe. And gave him praise once he got it

Excited for summer :

Is this ai? Why’d you say mom? That’s dad😅

Hicophrenia meds :

look at the way his dad stands

🐍🐐꧁Persephone꧂🦌🍇 :

Wish my grandma did this with me instead of leaving me alone on a path I had never seen before

Blonde Steampunk Tarzan :

The fact that he showed his son that he’s proud in the end is so important

Berrypeachbunny :

not just independence, critical thinking and problem solving skills.

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china.

cheffin wit mj :

u can literally watch the kid learn, he went from going over, to under. trying to go over again on second rope but remember the first rope way, so he went under first time on the third rope👏

heyhighhippie :

its a good idea bit I think walking away is causing unesecary stress. could just wait

BIA.WOOD :

☆🪼𝐅𝐮𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐚🪼☆ :

I’d just sit there😭🙏