@natashavctoria: One reason why a FA gets triggered just after the intense dating period #fyp #foryou #fearfulavoidantattachment #avoidant #avoidantattachment #attachmentstyle #traumahealing #therapy #anxiousattachment #Relationship
Man, I just wanted to love somebody but apparently it takes a degree in psychology.
2025-03-13 17:04:51
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Changing Optics w/ Scott Roth :
i dont think romantic love exists WITHOUT attachment either. There will always be an aspect of external validation...it just requires healthy vetting
2025-03-14 09:20:52
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jimmy 🪢 🐝 :
the crazy reality is a secure attachment can feel emotionless or even boring, and unsecure attached people May misinterpret contentment with disinterest or "not in love" with the other person. this is where emotional intelligence becomes vital in a relationship. 🙏🏻
2025-03-14 16:12:52
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morgan 🍵🪼 :
it’s sad bc i don’t want to resort to “all i was, was to fill the void” after everything. but it sometimes feels like that.
2025-03-14 03:59:01
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DobermanDan :
As I'm listening I'm thinking, codependancy starts the relationship. The quickness, the desperation through wounding. But then the reality hits of 'losing yourself'? Then comes the deactivation
2025-03-13 19:35:41
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Rob :
it’s really hurtful for the other person. i thought everything was going amazingly, we matched so well on every level, so loving. i finally felt safe and relaxed and got dropped 3 days later. broke me
2025-03-13 23:03:04
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carrrrlz :
it’s like i’m fine, i’m so chill everything is going well, and then they do ONE thing that shows me nurturing/protection/safety and suddenly i freak out because i feel like i need them to survive
2025-03-13 18:30:36
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notstlaurent :
Why would someone keep coming back but keep saying “we’re not going to be together” like??? Then LEAVE ME ALONE
2025-03-16 00:31:54
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Milagreee :
You can’t overwhelm them. Give them the space to figure out their own emotions bc they’re not about you, they’re about them. Space is the key.
2025-03-15 00:26:00
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Myra Jane :
Would this explain why he ignores me at times now but is excited to talk and see each other sometimes?
2025-03-13 20:16:24
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Danielle Duncan 🇫🇷 :
This is so beautifully articulated, thank you.
2025-03-13 20:03:48
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Ellie | gentle healing :
Can we say trauma bond 😅😅❤️
2025-03-13 17:47:48
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Tharsis Investigations LLC :
I love this video. Can you do a part two and talk about what the fix is for the fearful, avoiding
2025-03-13 16:15:13
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waxandwane :
Ghosting 101 lol
2025-03-14 02:04:32
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Jamie :
How do you heal the wound and give yourself that love. For me, it’s not feeling good enough, which leads a little bit to not feeling worthy or loveable. Even though I know I am.
2025-03-14 03:02:36
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trevljohn :
What about when they jump to someone else while still with you
2025-03-13 17:07:23
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neves :
Yeah, cool. But peace of mind always returns - when you earned back your independence (fully). So, I guess we just have avoid relationships "foreva'" and we good... 🧘♀️
2025-03-14 00:38:57
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Paulo :
te felicito por haber superado tu apego evitativo
2025-04-20 02:30:56
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Jo Mey :
Man, my fearfulness PROTECTS ME FROM NARCS!!! If something is off, it's because my subconscious warns me. Until my consciousnesd can sense, what's off .
2025-04-22 06:08:48
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amelia :
For me it’s because if something happens I’ll stop feeling safe. But I’ll stay and fight for a relationship as long as possible
2025-03-14 15:45:29
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Selsol88 :
You described exactly why and how I derailed a budding past connection - i ended up with straight up terror in my soul, terrified of losing the thing i finally had & didn’t know what to do with it
2025-03-15 01:48:41
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that_cayce 🌈🏳️⚧️💙✈️ :
Can ya just send this to my ex, but like on the down low. 😆😆😆😆😆
2025-03-14 13:50:54
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Callzeee💕 :
Yeahhhh you perfectly described me
2025-03-20 16:55:09
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burningblaise :
she said I was the definition of comfort and safety and I needed her to understand I’d never hurt her. She just flipped and broke it off. Completely
2025-03-14 13:38:35
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Llu :
I realized watching this that I don't relate anymore and I feel really proud of that
2025-03-14 14:01:35
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