@brendaa.chan: I often feel guilty anytime I’m doing something nice for myself because of this. This flight was booked on points but I’m manifesting that I can do this for my whole family one day ❤️ #immigrantparents #firstgen #fypシ
A therapist once told me that guilt is usually in place of something. I often struggle with guilt regarding my parents and I just see it as I’m sad they cannot enjoy the things that they helped me get
2025-04-25 18:37:37
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Ing :
I think this is a common daughter of an immigrant sentiment
2025-04-25 11:53:42
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REI AMI :
Youngest daughter here with an older sister— you deserve it ❤️You feeling guilty is so eldest daughter coded lmao but wishing even more amazing experiences for you and your family!!
2025-04-25 19:58:04
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real estate in bay area ✨ :
What makes it more guilty is when they are so happy for you to experience it without hesitation.. 🤍
2025-04-25 15:19:34
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eugenejjung :
Flew our whole family to Seoul from Atlanta this summer and was most proud to let my parents fly first class…immigrant kids get it…forever grateful
2025-04-25 23:52:25
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nurse.essie23 :
Always feeling guilty when I do something nice for myself 🥺
2025-05-18 20:11:19
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honnhi :
As the oldest daughter I resonate with this
2025-04-25 05:57:10
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heather :
guilty but let me take a tiktok about this 💀
2025-04-26 15:47:06
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brittany :
Lmfao I’ve literally cried on in first class thinking about my parents immigrating go the US flying coach
2025-04-26 02:56:26
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little diary ✨ :
Trust me, your parents don’t care about these luxury business flights. As long as you are healthy and happy, they are happy
2025-04-25 19:35:17
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Juju :
I feel this all the time
2025-06-05 18:04:51
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Adriannnnnn :
Im the youngest in my immigrant filipino family. I took a solo trip a few months back on the cheapest flight i could get and i felt guilty for not being able to give my vacation for my parents….
2025-04-25 15:19:00
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Min :
I relate to this
2025-04-24 23:46:40
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Tempest Brock :
Having a kind heart is sometimes the worst ever isn’t it. Enjoy your life babe. It’s ok.
2025-05-29 11:21:42
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darkfluent :
It’s ok, there’s still time for you to buy them those business class tickets.
2025-04-25 04:16:20
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linh 🫧 :
i have not flown first class yet but i know that when this day comes, i will feel the guilt immensely
2025-04-25 19:48:38
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veryvivs :
Don’t feel bad bb they wouldn’t even enjoy it if they were there. Take care of yourself first then you can take care of others
2025-04-25 03:35:16
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alsharawy31 :
more of her?
2025-04-25 07:50:59
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KYUMMY :
I feel guilty about everything I do for myself
2025-04-25 10:29:41
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Okc-foodies12 :
I feel the same way. I refuse to buy business class for myself. I’ve been saving all my points to use it for my parents.
2025-06-10 05:00:45
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The Chau Family :
First daughter /first child of an immigrant guilt hits haaarrrrddddd
2025-04-27 05:20:31
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Lisa :
This is so me
2025-04-25 03:28:10
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HaSun💓 :
You deserve to be happy and enjoy it💞
2025-05-27 13:52:54
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🎐Inae🎐 :
This is too real 😔 We deserve it but also manifesting this for the both of us! ✨
2025-04-25 12:45:53
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B & E 🐶🐶 :
Watch when life gives you tangerines 🥹
2025-04-26 02:15:35
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