@swiftieinkc: Not tagging this creator because I don’t want to send them hate, and I feel like there’s a solid chance they’re trying to rage bait. But I saw quite a few well intentioned folks in that comment section asking “how would we know” etc etc TALK. Talk about ethics, world peace, religion, humanity. Men need to talk to other men. Call out jokes in the moment. Talk to each other. #manoftheyear #swifttok #feminism #greenscreenvideo #greenscreen
"where are you finding these dudes?" literally everywhere
2025-06-18 05:33:49
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JJReed4174 :
he likely knows at least 10
2025-06-17 01:35:36
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Abigailee 🍉 :
I guarantee he has spoken to a woman that way and just refuses to admit it to himself or anyone else.
2025-06-17 15:48:41
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shannon :
This is why Daniel Sloss is one of my favorite people. Dark humored comedian who begged men to take a hard look at their friends. It was a serious topic and he approached it perfectly. He stood up for his friend when she went through grape and made sure it was okay with her to talk about it. I want to say it was his special Jigsaw
2025-06-17 21:19:29
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ryleigh :
But we are supposed to believe there is a male loneliness epidemic??? 💀
2025-06-17 13:27:04
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♥︎ :
he victim blamed??? 💀
2025-06-18 15:23:18
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R :
Not to mention all the shit we as women hide from our friends because we are embarrassed we let a man treat us like this.
2025-06-17 16:51:17
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Samturtle3 :
He also victim blame’s in the video. He literally said “it’s probably your fault” like he just proved to be that guy. 😂
2025-06-18 00:46:25
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Grief Lasagna & Co. :
100 men VS accountability
2025-06-18 14:37:14
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nicksversion :
i think if men are surprised by how many women have stories like this than that means they’re telling on themselves that they don’t have female friendships in their lives. so many women have gone through horrible situations like these and the men that are baffled by it clearly haven’t taken the time to learn/understand anything about what really goes on behind the scenes. i was shocked when this creator said “it could be your fault” ?!?! it’s so sad that even in 2025 so many people immediately jump to victim-blaming and making it so much harder for women to come forward.
2025-06-16 22:42:56
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Chimkemnuggiez :
“Where are you finding these dudes?” Pick a direction.
2025-07-25 02:49:06
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Brewdoggy :
I also have never had a man in my life text me like that. My first thought is “wow I’m very lucky” not “oh they all must be lying then”. THE ARROGANCE the think the latter?????
2025-06-17 15:33:21
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Kane.♡. :
I just don’t believe they’re surprised at all lol locker room talk is a thing for a reason. Also.. of course he’d follow up with “it’s your fault*
2025-06-17 17:06:55
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A.D. 🫠 :
A lot of the abusers I’ve become aware of were “real stand up guy” “the nicest guy I know” “wouldn’t hurt a fly” … they aren’t just lurking in alleyways, they are your friends, family, lovers, leaders…
2025-06-17 18:09:05
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Kali :
a major problem is that they don't know what "casual" misogyny is. I guarantee they/their friends say some really messed up stuff about/to women but they just... don't see that as misogyny OR don't take misogyny seriously enough to see it as a precursor to violent behavior
2025-06-17 21:12:11
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Heather :
Never reported the man that SA’d me because he was loved by everyone and I knew no one would believe me. Even my parents tried to make excuses for him. Mind you every woman in my immediate family has experienced SA.
2025-06-18 01:46:28
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meowujiiiii :
And also I’ve never seen anybody say this about the “woman of the year” trend even though it’s basically the same thing??? All of the videos I’ve seen are about cheating and I’ve never seen a woman say “well where did you find this one cus it might be your fault” only men protecting other men
2025-06-18 20:14:56
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Jean :
My rapist was called out on social media and his friends all said the same thing… yeah, they know them- just not like we do.
2025-06-17 17:27:54
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alexandria.monik.art :
"where are you finding these dudes" *pushes a girl to give that one friend a chance*
2025-06-19 21:55:51
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Kitty (Taylor's Version) :
"this could partly be your fault as well" ofc blame the woman. He's a liar and has said something horrendous to a woman who said something to him and said "it was her fault" bc she started it.
2025-06-17 16:05:46
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Poppy-Poe :
100 men vs an ounce of self reflection or critical thought
2025-06-18 20:52:53
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✨Bee🐝 :
“Why don’t women have crazy men stories? And then I realized, if you got a crazy boyfriend you gon die.” -Donald Glover
2025-06-22 00:24:11
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Kimberly Miller :
“It could partly be your fault” lol so everything but accountability. It’s giving “but what was she wearing?”
2025-06-17 15:58:48
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Anna📚🐈⬛💙 :
Where? Every fucking where, my guy.
2025-06-18 10:04:44
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hhmmhm hm :
Every single one of these videos has at least one comment with the sentiment "where are you finding these demons?" On the street, bro. Everywhere
2025-06-18 08:48:20
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