@sarajaneho: We have all judged someone for something, but did you know that according to Kabbalah it means that you energetically will have to go through the same thing? I’ve always said that I’m grateful for having experienced a controlling and abusive ex because it allowed me to have more empathy for women going through the same thing, especially in China where domestic violence is 4x that in the US. Prior to that experience I didn’t understand why some women could let themselves be victims which was an incredibly insensitive way to think. In this soul-shifting episode, I sit down with spiritual teacher David Ghiyam to unpack the ancient wisdom of Kabbalah—not as a religion, but as a practical toolkit for modern life. Listen to the full conversation on Mind Your Manners wherever you get your podcasts + watch it on YouTube