@mindfulsources: forgive your parents for not being able to love you the way you needed, then forgive yourself for looking for love in all the wrong places #healing #HealingJourney #life #coffee #coffeetok

🦋 :

I forgive them but i need to get out this house and find my home

whothedeva :

no forgiveness without any apologies.

Mia~ :

No. As a human being you can understand them. But as a daughter/son is not your obligation to forgive your parents just so they can die with a clear conscience. You deserved better. You didn’t ask to be born. Their only job was to give you love, attention and communication. It’s not your fault. It never was.

❤️‍🔥 :

How can I forgive the two people that were supposed to love me, to make me feel save and worthy, when all they did was shaming me, hating on me, leaving me, using me.. ??

cap :

Forgiving is not that easy

ᴛᴀᴋᴡᴀ :

NO FORGIVENESS for both of them.

Spicy :

How can I forgive someone who didn’t even apologise to me?

unknown :

if you’ve been stuck replaying your parents’ story, read cosmic attravia. it’s the only thing i’ve found that truly explains how to break that cycle.

nanasmudamaniss :

an apology without change is manipulation

©️lifford🌟🪽 :

“i was just a child. I yearned for love and yet i learned to carry all my problems by myself”

ℬ𝒪𝒪𝒟𝒴 :

why this hit so hard 💔

Jojo LA :

Nah I’m good

valeeyra :

seeing my youngest sibling being treated so well, is very different from when i was child.. now i feel neglected.. it's unfair☹

casper.the.friendly.cat :

But they left so many holes in my heart

🦢 :

forgive the one who make me go to a therapist

🍑 :

I forgave myself but I don't need to forgive them.

🦋🐞 :

I can forgive but I can't forget

𝚉eynep :

Never

Mialy Harinisainana :

who else is crying 🥲

Rania :

Forgiving is hard when u watch them love your younger siblings, the way u wanted- no needed to be loved .. the fact that they learned parenting on me .. true, I was their first child, maybe they didn't know how to love me ..but i did nothing wrong .. this isn't fair .. they turned me into a broken person.

𑣲𝐊 :

Jurry👽 :

let's talk about the fact that all fathers are not dad😑

Cyrene ash :

"I will always long for my parents’ love, but God gave me a grandmother to fill the emptiness they left behind. Through her, I learned to forgive them for not rising to the role parents should."

S. :

it's my fault that I need too much love

Ary 🤎 :

You can forgive but never forget....