@mama.unfiltered: It’s wild how most of the fights in our marriage aren’t about love…they’re about the load. (And not that good load 😏) The bedtime routines, the messes, the endless “who’s turn is it” The stress of parenting turns small things into big things fast. But after every argument, I try to remember: we both want the same thing… a happy home, healthy kids, and a little fckinnn peace and quiet. Reconnecting isn’t always easy, but it’s always worth it…. Because underneath the exhaustion, there’s still that person I chose, and who chose me! (Like deep deep down, below the lack of sleep, and overwhelm there is that cute rambunctious, easy going gal that used to not get annoyed over so many noises and be able to stay up past 9pm and never had a headache or tummy ache 😂 90% of our fights start with: “Can you just help me for once?!” (As I’m cursing under my breath) Parenting will test your marriage like nothing else. You’re tired, touched the Fckkk out, running on caffeine and sarcasm. But then after the chaos settles, you look at each other like, “waitttt wowww, we survived… again.” That’s when you remember why you picked each other in the first place. The connection might get buried under toys and tantrums…but it’s still there. You just have to dig it out, or find it in your spouses pants 😂 (preferably after bedtime or before work) . . #couples #dating #youandme #x

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