@kayleewigglefart: I can’t do commitment

𝖙𝖚𝖐𝖚💫 :

“i have avoidant attachment” translating 🔄”im a horrible human being and lead you on, im just using this as an excuse to avoid taking accountability”

Řidæ :

avoidant attachment = Idk what im doing but I will probably lead you on and find a reason to push you away then later try to come back

Jonaa :

Are yall like allergic to love bro

່ :

i feel so horrible

user02698480972 :

bru sm ppl don't understand that it's not bc ppl don't wanna be loved we do but it's the fact that when things start to get serious it scares ppl bc they can't tell if it's fake or not so they just leave

iiblamejacob :

Avoidant attachment is just an excuse to hurt the other person.

𖤣.𖡼 L a r a .𖤣𖥧 :

I pushed him away twice. Came back after the first time. Tried for 3 months. Pushed away again. I hate myself for it. I actually don't think I'll ever find someone more perfect than him.

M ᰔᩚ :

i really don’t know what to do 😩

𝒥𝓊𝓁𝒾𝒶 :

I feel so bad for him we had contact for only like 2 weeks or so.. I left him like he was nothing.. and he didint even do anything wrong… the problem was me because I never knew what I ever wanted or how I felt.. and I feel like he deserved so much more than me so I let go.. and he was the sweetest boy ever and I never felt like I deserve him.. even tho he treated me better than anyone has ever done to me.. all the phone calls, all the laughs togheter.. and I left and gave up on him so easily.. like he didint matter but I feel so bad genuinely.. but I just know that he deserves better than me And I’ve never felt so seen or heard ever before… and I feel like I finally didint have to force someone to be so understood… but how do I know if I’m truly like sorry? Or if I ever mean something I say… like if it’s real when I really said something to him like compliment him ect because i never knew because I was so unsure and I didint want to play him… or give him false hopes just because I’m so unsure and lost in myself… but I know that I have always had the lover girl in me.. but where is she?.. and I know I have always had the sweetest soul ever.. but something inside me died… I just can’t feel anything anymore for anyone or myself…i am a horrible person and i feel so bad for him… and i hate how complicated I am with feelings and I truly wish him the best… and I dont know how all of a sudden I became like this… empty and no feelings at all. And I want the old me back because who am I even now? I don’t recognise myself… and he never deserved anything that I did to him… and know I don’t know what to do…

selina :

I told him i cant and he called me 20times, now i’m crying and he hates me.

lady.ponpon :

I’m sorry but as someone who had this attachment style please do not connect with people when you know you’ll push them away. I took therapy, healed, and apologized to the people that I hurt. Unfortunately, I was played the exact same way when I was finally secure with myself (karma), and now I know the physical and mental pain people cause when they don’t know how to take accountability. While you actively ignore that person, they are sobbing in their pillow bc they are so confused. It’s an extremely selfish thing to do. I still feel pain bc his actions, you do know that while you’re so in your head, you’re discarding someone like they’re trash bc you can’t do the bare minimum. You need to heal.

A 🪷 :

Avoidant attatcnment isnt a real thing JTS just individuals who can’t communicate and lets their trauma self sabotage

Longdickdaddy27 :

“I have avoidant attachment”🔂”I’m emotionally immature and I date for attention”

ᯠ 𓇮 ᯄ :

these comments are actively trying to villainize avoidant attachment but it’s not something we chose to do and you guys obviously don’t understand

Arjun :

Buzzword Buzzword Buzzword

user838122 :

Harry Kane lover :

Mariojudah #71315 :

and then all of the sudden the next guy you meet you aren't so avoidant anymore and things work because you met the first guy! 😂 It's funny how that works it's like you're trying to ruin someone

youngWhite1999 :

Sam :

i feel like such a terrible person and i want to fix it but i don’t know how🫩

Orion :

️ :

I have multiple reasons why, but I also know he'd be so good for me. I just mentally don't think I can do it. I don't want to hurt him, and if we did end up tg I want to make sure I'm the right person for him and not someone whose trying to heal and just wanting to find herself.

Kitkat :

her fyp not mine

𝓔. :

he doesn’t know how to communicate sadly 😔

natalie💋 :

he was perfect