I agree with this unless there are kids and you are communicating on behalf of what choices you make for the child but even then there needs to be boundaries. Anyone who is still communicating with the ex especially when they don’t have kids and they are in a new relationship isn’t giving themselves permission to FULLY move on. Becsuse in order to normalize that behavior especially when one person is with someone else and the other is not, the person in a relationship is proving something to their ex more than they are showing up with better self awareness in their new relationship. That’s how a lot of people will make the same mistakes in relationships with someone new because when it’s exciting and fun and new it’s great but then when things get real and maybe their new partner isn’t getting the love they deserve because the person they’re with is trying to balance who they are for an ex who they feel responsible for when maybe they haven’t moved on emotionally doesn’t mean that the person who is in the relationship will show up in their own relationship once their ex moves on and is happy with someone else. It sets the person up who has the relationship to think that they don’t have it as good as their ex all of a sudden because they watch their ex have all of the firsts with someone else and almost live through their life because they forgot to live in their own and give themselves permission to make the person they’re with happy too. It’s not just about the new person putting effort into them it’s about them focusing on the new person and creating a life with that person more than trying to show up for the ex. Some people put up with it for a while and can understand wanting to be civil and not have animosity but a person can create chaos internally by trying to share their happiness with their ex, waiting for the ex to give them attention that isn’t sincere because they aren’t even together and see they moved on, and then the person is made to prioritize the ex at the ex’s convenience and then discarded at their convenience to where the person who had someone first then projects that emotional lack onto their new relationship only to watch their ex
2026-01-22 01:24:16
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Robert :
Tell her you want to be friends with your ex gf
2026-01-18 05:02:11
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outlawcustoms7474 :
So true, and never have any ex on you social media if you are with someone, it’s just wrong and tells your partner you are not all in
2026-01-19 02:20:05
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Ntpa3000 :
My gf keeps telling me it’s my insecurities and she also accepts single men that she has never known. Plus never post anything that suggests she has a boyfriend
2026-01-19 00:45:25
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Jose Guillen373 :
my ex stop talking to her ex because I got mad but the second we broke up she when back to talking to him
2026-01-19 14:46:48
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i_love_being_high999 :
My girl still is and it’s alot and I messed up sm but we’re still tg n idk im lowk scared to lose her plus she’s hard to love n that’s tough especially with her being sensitive n shi I love this girl tho smmmm 😭🙏🏽
2026-01-18 03:15:43
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PettyAsFuk :
My ex thought staying friends with his ex was perfectly fine and that’s why he’s my ex. I cut my ex off for him so he should’ve done the same for me and there was a kid involved with my ex, not my biological kid but I raised him for 4.5 years
2026-01-19 03:23:33
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Lotta Fun :
HELL YEAH BRO!!!!’ SPOKEN LIKE A BOSS!!!!!
2026-01-19 00:11:01
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🔥Dark❌Phoenix🔥 :
No, you choose me or him!! Self Respect is everything.
2026-01-18 14:46:44
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Onslaught :
I remain Friends with my ex.we have a special needs child that we co parent and he doesn't understand why we live apart.
is the advice you speak about based of personnal experience or purely hypothetical scenarios blanketed over various unique situations.
2026-01-18 11:35:47
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Andrew Sabin :
It’s one thing if they were friends. It’s another when he messages her a lot.
2026-01-18 23:37:11
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Squishy :
This is exactly why I cut my exes off completely. Love the way you explain it. I would not want to be with a man who is still keeping is exes around.
2026-01-19 05:32:22
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teetee :
if children are invovled, you need to remain civil, you sont.need.to have everyday conversations, if it doesn't pertain to the child you have no business talking, you split up for a reason
2026-01-20 00:41:43
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Steady :
alot of my best friends are ex lovers. no big deal here . if it's my turn I'm content. Just sayin from a 78yo
2026-01-18 19:29:32
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🫦W~I~S~H🫦 :
goes for both, leave them in the past.
2026-01-19 14:51:45
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Jojomojo1973 :
I’ve been divorced 10 years and we are still friends, our children are grown and we still do things together. We are family. No way we would ever get back together but no way I would let someone tell me we couldn’t be friends when he’s been in my life for 30 years …
2026-03-03 05:31:18
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Ian Carbajal :
God help me with this 🙏 I know you are with me
2026-01-18 20:46:51
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Reg 🇨🇦 :
Absolutely NOT!
2026-02-14 03:43:16
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Red Feather :
Truth!!! For both!
2026-01-19 04:21:32
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Rob Bell :
not a chance
2026-01-19 03:15:44
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johncolemanjr :
Hell, no
2026-01-18 22:47:09
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Harlow Vexx :
I disagree
2026-02-24 18:56:22
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