I do but it doesn’t work because whatever I say during those times I’m a lier
2026-01-19 20:12:27
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nabiii_7w7 :
Just trust me, Magnetic Game by Blaine Bolton is the book you NEED right now. It changed my life.
2026-01-19 22:42:07
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Amber :
Ok, but while someone asking me "What's one thing I can take off your shoulders?" is a nice gesture, I'm likely to see it as yet another choice I have to make. I'd rather my partner offer suggestions: "How about I do the dishes and you go decompress?" Then all I have to do is say yes or no.
2026-01-19 14:19:33
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crankysquid :
I hate when you're videos make me realize that I'm the bad partner in the scenario 😭
thanks though
2026-01-26 20:35:17
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~*~Tabitha~*~ :
This needs to be on his FYP. Not mine.
2026-01-20 21:29:14
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Kara Marie :
When you say “have a good partner having a bad day,” that’s literally what I experience. And now I know how to move forward so that he knows I’m on his side and he’s allowed to have a bad day and I’m there for him 🙏🏽
2026-01-29 05:57:42
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Good cat :
It can also go both ways. When I feel super crabby, I tell my family, “It’s not you, it’s me. Please give me tons of space today.”
2026-01-19 14:39:08
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Hilda :
Love this I realized I had to let go of my partner I’ve been in the hospital with my son who has epilepsy and I asked him why he hasn’t been there for me or my other kids and he got so mad and told me what I said was uncalled for and he was blocking me
2026-01-19 19:30:11
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Sandy Watt :
I absolutely love this. To me, doing this is the definition of true love.
2026-01-19 15:18:01
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Tiffany Z :
oh this would completely change my mood just that validation and being seen !!! ❤️
2026-01-20 13:50:50
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amethystwyvern🚦 :
I struggle with emotions, so usually I make my partner cookies (or some other comfort food) and offer comfort touches by hovering my hand until they lean into me (or backing off if they don't seem to want it). Presence enough for reaching out, but not pressuring anything
2026-01-20 05:14:05
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TOMACT84 :
first comment.... and... hoping this one helps people!!
2026-01-19 14:13:36
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rosalograssopatti :
Good point. ♥️
2026-01-21 12:14:14
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toricooper760 :
what if my spouse's default setting is overwhelmed and stressed?
2026-01-19 15:25:56
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Chris Godden :
I work, come home and do the cooking, cleaning, play with the kids, get the kids to bed. I sit down and talk about her day, I asking she is stressed or overwhelmed and I do what ever she needs so she can stay on the sofa relaxing and watching TV. I check in on the relationship every two weeks I tell her what she is doing great and we talk about what I can do differently
I am alone in a relationship, im not important, we don't do anything together and I sleep in a separate room ✌️
2026-02-12 13:06:34
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jamie._.mae :
it's just hard when it seems like every day is some sort of stress or overwhelm. It's hard to have accountability and standards for each other when we're both exhausted all the time
2026-01-20 21:36:09
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ashyyinluvv :
Put this in his fyp bruh
2026-02-04 13:49:29
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val👾 :
but what happens when i am that partener and my partner ignores when im in that mood?
2026-02-03 02:58:56
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eveyoucoward :
ON HIS FYP NOT MINE
2026-03-18 01:56:25
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soul_of_the_night4 :
i dont have to ask.. they vocalize it...and doesnt change much..
2026-01-21 22:33:30
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Theta Mind :
no one should carry it all or place it all on one person
2026-01-19 20:40:24
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ebaeba31 :
what if that happens every 3 days and they say very mean things but dont ever apologize. ..
2026-03-01 03:26:09
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Shannon :
The only problem is, just because they know what question to ask doesn’t mean they’ll actually listen to the answer. I’ve got a husband learning the script but is still emotionally detached.
2026-01-20 15:22:38
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🐝Bee :
🥰🥰🥰
2026-01-29 13:21:03
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