@thesamanthajd: Did you know the most common misdiagnoses of ADHD in women are depression and anxiety?🤯 Women constantly mask their struggles, taught to minimize them and left to think everyone else struggles this hard too—which leads to frequent misdiagnoses. Black women with ADHD often experience late diagnosis and misdiagnosis due to cultural pressures to be "strong," systemic racism, and the misinterpretation of symptoms as defiance or laziness🙄 (be so fr) Some of the ways ADHD can show up for (Black) women in our daily lives👇🏽 1️⃣ Forgetfulness: Due to mental fog and constant racing thoughts 2️⃣ Constant daydreaming or seeming “spacey” (extreme boredom): Mine especially showed up in class, on the soccer field, and at home. Maladaptive daydreaming usually serves different purposes for ADHDers, usually to cope with boredom😅  3️⃣ Emotional dysregulation: Quick to be irritable, frustrated, overwhelmed? Could be unmanaged ADHD👀👀 (not medical advice, just validating you) 4️⃣ Intense procrastination: A result of executive dysfunction, time blindness, & perfectionism 5️⃣ Severe Anxiety: From constantly trying to manage all the things, remember all the things, compete with other racing thoughts, and rumination 6️⃣ Burnout cycles: From working harder to do everyday things + all the masking😅 As a young black girl I excelled in school and was praised when tasks seemed “too easy” for me. The moment I started to struggle I internalized that and masked so well I slipped through the cracks, just like many others do😅 Seeking a diagnosis as an adult and getting that validation was honestly life changing in so many ways!🥹 I hope spreading more awareness and sharing my story helps validate other women who relate🫶🏽✨ Follow @thesamanthajd for more💕 #neurodivergent #adhd #adhdinwomen #audhder #blackhistorymonth

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kelskels606
kelskels606 :
I was diagnosed with AuDHD today and I knew I was autistic, but I’m shocked about the ADHD. This video helped me a lot. Thank you.
2026-05-13 21:59:56
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thesamanthajd
Sam | UGC Creator + YouTuber :
Ways my adhd shows up: forgetting all the ways my adhd shows up😅😂
2026-02-10 01:18:18
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sydtaylob
Sydney B. :
Mines presented as anxiety and depression. Went undiagnosed for a long time because I was being treated for depression rather than ADHD.
2026-02-28 17:54:09
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bripanther827
bripanther827 :
Executive function issues, extremely sensitive, RSD, super creative, not knowing when/how to start things, I get overwhelmed very easily especially when I am overstimulated. I was diagnosed w/ anxiety first, then ADHD, then autism. I sought those two diagnoses after my children got diagnosed and I saw myself in them.
2026-03-02 22:54:44
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taymckoy
Tawinika Mckoy :
you are a mirror of me 😭😭😭 Instant follow!
2026-07-07 06:57:55
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anne.brainhealth
Anne.brainhealth :
i love how you explained all the things ❤️
2026-03-08 20:29:55
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tallblackgirl_lk
Tallblackgirl_lk :
Just got diagnosed last week 😅
2026-03-31 15:48:55
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queengoldielocs
Queen Goldie Locs :
What lashes are these
2026-06-09 00:26:12
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tendertabby
TT :
46, just diagnosed. It was both validating and sad that I've lived like this so long. Brown Puertorican. I was diagnosed with anxiety and depression caused by anxiety.
2026-03-12 01:04:13
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allabee_
Allante B :
Thank you for say all this! Because me to girl 🫠
2026-02-14 14:04:41
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captspacecadet
Chelsea🐚 :
how do you feel about constantly working the same schedule? over and over...I'm crashing ...I'm having another evaluation soon but this sucks
2026-03-11 17:08:33
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chryschross
Chrys Anthemum :
finally getting evaluated this week, I am 34 😅.
2026-02-16 03:55:59
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walkinginabundance :
I resonate with everything! ADHD- So many things but, Executive functioning and motivation.
2026-02-13 07:42:18
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generatingdoll
YT: generatingdoll :
Lashesss 😻
2026-03-11 04:54:18
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elitebosses.society
💋Elitebosses.society🍒 :
Meeee AND I’m an only child!!! CAN’T SLEEP bc my brain is ALWAYS ON GO AND BABY IMA LOSE EVERYTHINGGGGG
2026-02-24 19:52:11
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moremanii___
Imani :
Just posted about how ADHD shows up in relationships. We need more representation!
2026-03-04 17:23:23
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graceharlin
Grace Harlin :
How did you go about finding a psychiatrist that specialized in adults with ADHD? I feel like I’ve tried so hard to find someone but I can never find what they specialize in.
2026-02-16 12:39:47
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tiffanynicole448
Tiffany Nicole :
I have almost all of these symptoms except I have to go to sleep in silence because noises and lights will also keep me distracted and bother me 😩
2026-02-22 22:43:00
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pushabriii
pushabri :
Commenting to stay on this side of TikTok
2026-03-24 10:39:44
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kariannass11
Karianna :
Hi I am struggling with the same I got diagnosed recently last Monday and I went into shock. Can I ask how do you track your emotions like you mentioned?
2026-03-29 02:01:57
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godhasredeemedher1980
Godhasredeemedher1980 :
my therapist thinks I show signs of adhd and I always felt like I have as well. I also felt like I was on the spectrum. I have been diagnosed with ptsd and anxiety. I heard it is expensive to get tested though. I have a psychiatrist for med management but I dont even know how to go about to get tested.
2026-03-29 22:57:22
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seoft.cloud
seoft.cloud :
This sounds like me 😭
2026-03-27 04:47:19
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angelcakesharp
angelcakesharp :
I relate to this sm but I’m not diagnosed so yea that’s that😭
2026-03-27 09:34:58
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chocolate_kisses85
Tiff :
I have not been diagnosed but I deal with everything that you explained. I’ve wondered but being. Black women I was just told it was anxiety/depression. I’m 40 now and I’m struggling. I think it’s burnout from masking. The inattentive adhd definition really explains me. I’m calling a psychiatrist tomorrow! Thank you for this. I’m so glad I came across this video! 💗
2026-07-06 23:12:48
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whimsyunicorn
Jojo :
Started getting tested last year at the age of 34. Had to put it on pause because I left the country. I feel like I’ve been masking for so long that I don’t really know how my ADHD presents lol. I definitely have racing thoughts constantly every day impulsivity, I am extremely sensitive. definitely going back to get tested and diagnosed once I get back to the states.
2026-03-19 08:54:00
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