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willynilly9090 :
He didn't listen to you or didn't care.
2026-02-13 04:58:43
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kevin_is_46 :
You read it right. He was not going to be okay with you not drinking if he planned a date at 2 bars. He would be the one saying a drink or two is fine. He was not listening to or respecting you.
2026-02-13 13:59:33
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Amber ❌ :
Not only is it a RED FLAG 🚩 it’s a level of disrespect that is not acceptable!!!
2026-02-13 19:20:40
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yma1974 :
Ma’am you are never wrong or over reacting to protect your sobriety. Never doubt that your sobriety is above anything.
2026-02-14 04:34:48
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hebrew_hammer19 :
I’m 14 years sober, you did the right thing. He obviously didn’t hear a word you said and certainly didn’t take it into consideration when making the reservation if he did hear you. People, places & things…
2026-02-13 04:53:29
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Lee in Campbell :
He obviously ignored what you told him. So you made the right decision based upon what you would be comfortable with. It’s quite easy to pick a restaurant that isn’t cocktail lounge
2026-02-13 08:22:59
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MariaBella :
You were 100% correct and you handled it like a queen
2026-02-13 16:25:17
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queencityjacey :
It sounds like he was testing your sobriety and boundaries to see how you would react and respond. Good for you for clocking it and choosing you 👏💜
2026-02-13 16:19:36
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Anne Marie :
Good for you! He did listen to you. He picked the bar on purpose. He had bad intentions.
2026-02-13 12:35:00
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Cobbler4Breakfast :
You set boundaries. He pushed without, in the least, asking your opinion.
2026-02-21 17:04:07
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caulifloweratl :
I told a guy I didn’t drink and he still planned our first 2 dates at bars. I just ordered soda water on our first date and cancelled the second date. It bothered me too.
2026-02-13 23:19:38
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Nora Mullen :
Cancelling was smart
2026-02-16 04:47:19
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LynnieGWokeup :
Red flag! 😳 He did NOT listen.
2026-02-14 13:27:53
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ophelia_the_fair :
He didn’t care about anything you said. That would have been the theme of your relationship. Dodged a huge bullet! 🫶🏻🫶🏻
2026-02-14 04:32:00
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Robyn Bowser :
RED FLAG 🚩 I am so proud of you as a person. Wow love 💕 your boundaries.. awesome 👏 and powerful
2026-02-14 03:05:28
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Andrea Marie :
Red flag he didn’t care about ur feelings
2026-02-19 03:53:14
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LilahBee :
He either didn’t listen to a word you said on the first date or he simply didn’t care…
2026-02-13 08:21:12
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ambitchousclub :
💯 correct to cancel, he did not take anything you said into consideration
2026-02-14 20:14:25
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trishylyn :
You were right . He didn’t consider and listen to what you told him about your story If he really cared he would have considered that when choosing where to go on a date
2026-02-13 14:46:38
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sassytaffy1🐞 :
You should have communication with him that you would prefer a different option.
2026-02-15 04:21:23
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Karen Lucas392 :
Congratulations on your sobriety. Stand your ground.
2026-03-27 23:37:00
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ucannotbserious1 :
Brava for staying sober!!!!!!
2026-03-24 00:24:06
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RDiane :
You are fine. You protected yourself. Never doubt yourself!!!
2026-02-14 18:38:18
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Kristi Thompson :
He was testing you
2026-02-15 04:01:57
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