@robyn_holdaway: I'm keeping the sneeze in. Disagreeing with your partner is normal, just make sure you are doing so respectfully and kindly. The right person will help you to learn and grow. #Relationship #couplegoals #debating #advice #healthyrelationship
Great thing to have an opinion on: how many holes are in a straw
2026-04-08 20:51:10
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Tamara Epps629 :
Oftentimes when my gf and I disagree, it turns out we agree, just explain it in different ways
2026-04-09 11:03:13
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Danielle Richards223 :
"are you running old software" is such a great way to phrase it! subtle but direct - definitely using that!
2026-04-08 21:41:47
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remy_demie :
THIS!! I fear with social media and bubbles this gets lost so easily! It's not only important to tolerate other opinions, but actively seek out people with diffrent opinions/friends and partners with who you can have debates about these things
2026-04-08 20:53:33
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Thomas L Røyert :
AGREED! But for me, the line is drawn at fundamentally different views of humanity.
2026-04-09 05:18:03
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Tanner Matthew :
agreed! but its very important that people learn to have these discussions as DISCUSSIONS and not arguments. I've had far too many people that im vastly willing to listen to start screaming the second I start talking and ive never understood it. even when its not a romantic relationship, friendships should be able to have these conversations as well and disagree while having healthy discussions and hearing eachother, but I find far too many get angry when you challenge their viewpoint and I dont understand it.
2026-04-09 06:02:17
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glitchy_k :
Also I feel that being unable to have "silly" disagreements is just as serious as having different opinions major topics like human right. If you are genuinely unable to accept I will never like pineapple on pizza because of the taste and textures, then how can we ever have a honest conversation on things like policy
2026-04-09 02:09:32
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Chloe Eloise :
Great opinion difference between me and my husband… the correct way to load the dishwasher. 😂
2026-04-13 07:50:09
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🏳️⚧️Noah🇪🇺 he/him :
Off topic, but I love Robyns jumper. Where is it from?
2026-04-08 21:10:40
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Ben :
love the fact that you can actually have that mind set and not whant to make you like or have to except agree on certain things you both a good couple and you bounce of each other's energy 👌❤️
2026-04-09 08:33:07
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🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈 Monarch 🇵🇸🇺🇦 :
poly so I have two people to disagree with and the difference is seriousness of the disagreements is funny.
with one we disagree on whether or not Currancy is necessary in a communist society (I think it is) and the other is the correct order to eat a roast (veg, potatoes with the yorkies then the meat)
2026-04-08 21:56:59
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nalidrojoroja :
could you give an example of something semi big that you disagree with, I struggle to imagine the centre of the Venn diagram that is "thing big enough to care about" and "thing I'm able to disagree on", like for me if it's worth caring about then I really struggle with someone else disagreeing because that by definition means I believe they are wrong
2026-04-08 21:32:03
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greenacres_grounds :
I walked past pocket watch and petticoats in Cambridge today and thought of you
2026-04-09 01:19:39
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Kitten L'estrange Crafts :
I think you nailed it tho - it's not a disagreement about a humans right to exist
I love your content
2026-05-09 09:31:10
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Portia's Cosplay Account :
gf and I vehemently disagree on whether pickles are edible. we'll playfully tease but then I joke that its awesome bc she'll happily save me from any rogue pickles 😂 my brave and loyal knight
2026-04-09 14:43:22
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Moggy :
Extremely wise words. You are both so lucky to have found each other.
2026-04-09 08:37:01
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Rachel :
“You love me enough to challenge me” I love that ❤️
2026-04-09 09:49:18
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lilly :
intellectual intimacy it's one of my very favourite things that my boyfriend and I do long debates and conversations about things that cause mentally stimulating conversations for us both that are respectful
2026-04-09 04:15:04
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Jessie Doran209 :
I'm religious and my husband is atheist. biggest viewpoint difference we have. that's a conversation we were sure to have early. its all about communication. we have a lot of differences and I agree, that's a good thing
2026-04-09 17:09:17
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🪐sockatoo🏳️⚧️ :
me and my partner had a very funny heated debate on what counts as a "jacket" yesterday. we were laughing whole time. little harmless disagreements like that are what keep things interesting ✌️
2026-04-10 15:31:46
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tatemarie74 :
We love each other enough to (respectfully) challenge each other. Going on my wall 💜
2026-04-08 21:29:59
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Lady Vader (Lady V)🖤 :
Variety is the spice of life.. if we all liked the same things the world would be boring, there's so much to talk about, see and do it's a big world out there
2026-04-08 21:04:23
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Sassy | Eldest Daughter Files :
I think what often gets lost too is private opinion versus structural conviction. I might think and decide what I want concerning my own body while fiercely fighting for the opposite on a structural or political scale, for instance.
2026-04-08 21:14:54
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Page Brogan :
Sign of a healthy relationship!
2026-04-08 20:56:00
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Lucy :
My partner and I have slightly differing political opinions. He is very much Wales first, UK 2nd. For me I prefer to think of the UK as a whole but understand his view point
2026-04-08 21:21:11
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