If I ask for help, I am in the weeds. I need it NOW. I mean NOW.
2026-05-14 14:28:57
2899
Axel Rose the Frenchie :
His FYP not mine
2026-05-14 19:54:31
1331
Britty :
1,000% why I HATE repeating myself
2026-05-13 22:43:17
1084
Sarina :
I’m already pissed off that you didn’t notice it and I had to ask you
2026-05-19 12:48:57
239
Ms Mynxi❌ :
“I was going to get to it”. Is pretty much the reason I’m divorced.
2026-05-14 06:09:05
559
ravenmc123 :
I asked my husband for help with something and he said "what are you gonna do for me in return?" And I was like "ill just figure it out without you"
2026-05-17 07:28:58
49
Nothavinit Gen ❌ :
My family knows not to tell me about a problem unless they want me to solve it. I’m not wired for hand holding. I fix things
2026-05-14 08:20:54
339
Hannah Klaassen :
literally why I cancelled my engagement. I had to circle back on too many things and knew He DIDNT do it. I had to do it all
2026-05-14 18:03:14
327
Little inked gremlin :
I have never NEEDED help in my life. I have WANTED help......
2026-05-17 12:07:21
41
audibear :
I can see it needs doing, do it, and clear it off my mental plate. Or I can see it needs doing, ask you to do it, mentally log a follow up in 3 days because I can’t just trust you’ll actually handle it, check back in 3 days and find out oops, you did in fact forget to do it, remind you and mentally log another follow up… That’s not help, it’s another fucking chore.
2026-05-20 02:33:25
17
Apothica In The Jungle :
Later is just a polished version of no!!! Youre saying things I felt but didnt know how to put into words!!!
2026-05-14 05:44:37
332
paralegalities :
Hyper independence and hyper responsibility are the results of the grief we feel from constantly being let down, left alone and left out since we were literally children.
2026-05-20 02:33:35
39
Shrinking Heads :
If help is asked for, it means there's not enough bandwidth to begin with, let alone enough to track and remind that it needs to be done.
2026-05-16 03:42:22
32
sparklysusan :
“That’s not bitterness, that’s pattern recognition” YES.
2026-05-18 20:27:02
1
poshspice11 :
Fucking spot on!!! 🔥🔥
2026-05-13 22:34:27
36
Katrina Vroman :
This!!! All of this!!! We already have mastered being alone and figuring things out. If you become just another task to keep up with on our already long list, you simply won't be on that list at all.
2026-05-14 00:02:42
144
AustinCameron❌ :
Step up or Step out... 🤘😎🤘
2026-05-15 03:19:39
11
Kimber Leigh :
I just felt seen✨
2026-05-14 12:46:58
63
caseydawn76 :
If I ask I need it now or I wouldn’t have asked
2026-05-14 13:00:07
71
Jennifer Bruce Chris :
I’m going to ask once, then I’m just going to do it. Every time. Without fail. If I ask for help, it took a lot and I won’t ask again.
2026-05-16 04:15:43
63
Bea :
HIS fyp not mine
2026-05-15 12:00:53
14
Candice Oleson :
I so wait for the day when somebody will actually step up. It's exhausting.
2026-05-18 20:45:40
11
CJ_ade :
I quietly turned this up….😂
2026-05-16 21:31:21
16
CJ :
Louder for those in the back!
2026-05-16 19:19:46
11
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