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You're on the train, and you look at somebody sitting nearby, and suddenly your world shifts. You realise that this person has a favourite sandwich that they like to eat every week. They have a song that they will always cry to. They are carrying stresses, worries, and dramas that they are voicing to no one. According to the writer John Koenig, this has a word. It's known as sonder.  Sonder is the realisation that everybody is the protagonist of their own life. The boy at the bus stop. The man at the till. The woman in the next car over. They are each the centre of their lives, which are just as full, as detailed, as anxious, and as loving as yours.  According to the philosopher Iris Murdoch, what we call sonder is the definition of what it is to be a good person. But it's also one of the hardest things to do because, for most of our lives, we shuffle along in a kind of half-awareness that treats other people as background scenery. But to actually see another person and to treat them as real as you are requires what Murdoch calls ‘unselfing.’ It's a deliberate, attentive effort to look at them. And so most of the time we don't even try. We flatten the person across from us into being the stranger, the commuter, the obstacle in the queue. It's how cities are run. It's how organisations are run. It's how cruelty runs. It's how we can walk past somebody every day without the weight of their world crushing us.  Sonder is the moment that we attend to somebody, and it's when they turn from a thing into a someone. And if we believe Iris Murdoch, it is the only way that we can make the world better.
You're on the train, and you look at somebody sitting nearby, and suddenly your world shifts. You realise that this person has a favourite sandwich that they like to eat every week. They have a song that they will always cry to. They are carrying stresses, worries, and dramas that they are voicing to no one. According to the writer John Koenig, this has a word. It's known as sonder. Sonder is the realisation that everybody is the protagonist of their own life. The boy at the bus stop. The man at the till. The woman in the next car over. They are each the centre of their lives, which are just as full, as detailed, as anxious, and as loving as yours. According to the philosopher Iris Murdoch, what we call sonder is the definition of what it is to be a good person. But it's also one of the hardest things to do because, for most of our lives, we shuffle along in a kind of half-awareness that treats other people as background scenery. But to actually see another person and to treat them as real as you are requires what Murdoch calls ‘unselfing.’ It's a deliberate, attentive effort to look at them. And so most of the time we don't even try. We flatten the person across from us into being the stranger, the commuter, the obstacle in the queue. It's how cities are run. It's how organisations are run. It's how cruelty runs. It's how we can walk past somebody every day without the weight of their world crushing us. Sonder is the moment that we attend to somebody, and it's when they turn from a thing into a someone. And if we believe Iris Murdoch, it is the only way that we can make the world better.

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