@drewwdaniels: Most DA’s that I work with never become a different person because they got better at skills. They will end feeling more like a helpless failure because their heart is closed and resentful. They become different when they emotionally engage towards being a person that they would love to be. Switch from “good behavior” to “benefits of having big capacity”. #avoidantattachment #dismissiveavoidant
I believe this is really why you can't try to make someone be more or less of anything, they have to want that for themselves. Trying to control or change someone almost always ends up with resentment on both ends.
2026-05-24 15:22:24
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PeacheeeKeen :
Tried that, didn’t work
2026-05-23 17:47:06
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Natalie 🩷 :
mhmm
2026-07-29 22:37:49
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Dee 💫 :
Oh crap lol
2026-05-29 23:16:38
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Dragonfly_atx :
I’m sorry, but this does not work. I’m married to an avoidant, and they will just say that you should focus on yourself and stop focusing on them.
2026-05-22 22:56:11
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