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Bre :
I hate when people use “my ex cheated!” As an excuse to treat their partner poorly. Your CURRENT partner has nothing to do with that, treat them appropriately??
2026-06-01 19:38:34
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Mia P :
Mind you this is a 9 month relationship. It shouldn't already be hard all the time.
2026-06-02 16:34:43
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Egoístic :
The ride or die trope has been romantized so much that people forget that before being there through thick and thin you need to be compatible with that person, the difficulty of being there must come from the difficulties of life, not from the difficulty of loving and putting up with someone.
2026-06-01 19:44:02
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𝕣𝕖𝕟~ :
I am diagnosed with BPD but I'm in remission, so I have empathy for them both. I used to be like her 4-5 years ago, and it hurt so much. The constant distrust, the constant fear of abandonment, of rejection, of being discarded. It was horrible for all parties involved. I feel so bad for my ex back then, he didn't deserve the nervous wreck that I was. I'm better now, and I've vowed to myself to never ever let anyone go through that again. I hope they both find peace. I hope she's able to work on herself to the point of going into remission, and I hope he's able to move forward and that none of this goes with him into a new relationship. They both deserve peace and happiness.
2026-06-02 10:23:41
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Marco :
Life is far too short to spend it with someone you don’t enjoy being around
2026-06-01 22:16:08
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Ayy Jayy :
op made the best decision
2026-06-01 18:32:25
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Ella<3 :
Effort to change can mean less than nothing when the person doing the healing just isn't there yet. One day, maybe, she'll be there and heal. But today isn't that day. As someone who definitely got a lot of crap going on up here in my brain, you can empathize and still accept you gotta walk away cause not everyone is built for it
2026-06-01 19:38:20
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AggravatedAvocado🇬🇧🇪🇺🇹🇭 :
I was with someone with BPD. I remember reading about how relationships with people with BPD are so often toxic and exhausting. I thought "That won't be us." Alas, I went through the exact same thing as OP. My physical and mental health deteriorated with the constant pressure. I had to get out or I'd wither away into nothing.
2026-07-22 19:18:26
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rex<3 :
oh, HE'S avoidant? LMAO
2026-07-16 12:21:05
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iq_over_9 :
it seems she not only had bpd, but became completely dependent on op, emotionally
2026-07-30 16:32:14
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sarinagabriella :
Well this dos sound like a toxic relationship but if you and your partner really want to make it work try couples counseling and individual therapy maybe even take a break from each other to see if this relationship is even salvageable but it really sounding like you should break up if a relationship takes a mental health tole it’s not worth to keep
2026-06-02 12:12:29
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Sunnyy 🌤 :
i feel bad for her becuz i empathize with her. i have bpd and had way too much fighting and healing to do for a while. im not saying she's in the right but i know exactly how she feels. someone should only be in our lives if that someone can handle it, so he's right for leaving
2026-08-04 17:34:47
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IDontBelieveyou :
this relationship sounds tiring
2026-06-06 14:27:06
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emsi (zams version) :
op handled this so amazing
2026-06-05 11:41:17
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Belles111 :
OMG RUN & do it now!!!!! Things will only get worse 😧
2026-07-15 23:52:24
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li :) :
this relationship wasn't worth it
2026-06-03 12:41:07
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MajitoMojito :
valid
2026-07-23 15:19:18
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Liz Morgenstern :
dude that's exhausting
2026-08-01 00:40:33
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Tatiana Hoover :
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2026-06-03 06:02:47
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2026-06-02 13:31:21
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Kait 🪼💜 :
As someone with bpd I just wanna add something. It’s the most painful mental health condition with no chance of ever finding a cure and there’s NO medication for it. Some people find medication that helps them but it never goes away. If you had it and it “went away” you never had it.
2026-06-14 01:53:11
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kels :
i’m seeing some similarities between this relationship and mine. clocked my shit. i’ll work harder.
2026-06-03 09:16:05
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