@subliminalsamira: Can we talk about how avoidants always seem the most unbothered right after a breakup? That’s exactly why so many people quit no contact too early. They assume nothing is happening when, in reality, avoidants usually process their emotions much later than everyone else. Here are 5 signs no contact is actually working: 🌺 They’re watching your stories but staying silent. Just because they’re not reaching out doesn’t mean they’re not paying attention. A lot of avoidants watch from a distance before making a move. 🌺 Mutual friends keep bringing them up. This can be a sign that they’ve been asking questions about you behind the scenes or trying to figure out what you’ve been up to. 🌺 They start interacting in small ways. Maybe they’re liking old posts, watching everything you upload, or suddenly popping up where they haven’t been before. These little breadcrumbs are rarely random. 🌺 You hear from them after a period of complete silence. A random text, a reaction to a story, or even a simple “hey” usually means they’ve been thinking about you long before they actually reached out. 🌺 You’re starting to feel detached. Ironically, this is one of the biggest signs. The less obsessed you become with the outcome, the faster things tend to shift. A little hack for detaching is visualization before bed. Instead of replaying everything that went wrong, start imagining them calling you, texting you, apologizing, or saying exactly what you’ve been wanting to hear. Use the Bowcat Method while you’re doing this. This technique is specifically designed for situations like this. You’ll be living rent-free in their head while staying focused on the outcome instead of the circumstances. Most of you start seeing signs within a few days, sometimes even within a few hours. Save this post for the next time you start wondering if no contact is working. Comment “NC” if you’re currently in no contact. #bowcatmethod #avoidantattachment

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